I've decided that 2morrow I want to iniate kino. I've barely done any and I just got to grab something. What I want to do is when I am talking to her walking down the hallway, to grab her hand and put on a big smile and try to hold hands with her. I realize I could be setting myself up for failure but it could be a really good thing if she likes it. But if she pulls away, well then I wouldn't take it all that well. Would it come of kinda odd ?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Acceptable form of kino?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
InsidiousNstinct
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haha.....
Don't grab the boobies.
I'd suggest her shoulder, or her forearm.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
don't "grab" anything...that's retarded. There are plenty of easier ways that sound stupid but work like a charm. Take something from her and gently hit her with it... bump into her and say "watch where you're going" and smile...
READ THE POSTS ON KINO IN THE DJ BIBLE
READ THE POSTS ON KINO IN THE DJ BIBLE
My brother, who gets a lot of chicks, thinks I should find out if she likes me or not. He says he always finds if she likes him or not before he trys anything with girls. He means by having a friend go up to her and asking her which I think is stupid. You got to take chances in my opinion.
You guys are saying to keep it subtle but I desperately want to keep it out of the friend zone so I do think a simple arm pat will do the trick.
You guys are saying to keep it subtle but I desperately want to keep it out of the friend zone so I do think a simple arm pat will do the trick.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
lmao...an arm pat sounds like something a friend would do...if she is going prom with you, you sound in the clear. Show her that youy are a male with desires, maybe not by saying "Im a man with desires" but the intensity in your eyes when you look at her, the way you hold onto her hand a little after she lets go, the way you talk about girls with friends, the way you don't gossip with her, etc... READ POSTS IN THE BIBLE ABOUT STAYING OUT OF THE FRIENDSHIP ZONE TOO...EVERYTHING YOU WANT IS ALREADY BEEN SAID BEFOREHAND!
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Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
or the vagina...
just throw an arm around her
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
your right, it is stupid and so is your brother if he does that. how does he get chicks
but hey, your on the right track. so cheers
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.