I've decided that 2morrow I want to iniate kino. I've barely done any and I just got to grab something. What I want to do is when I am talking to her walking down the hallway, to grab her hand and put on a big smile and try to hold hands with her. I realize I could be setting myself up for failure but it could be a really good thing if she likes it. But if she pulls away, well then I wouldn't take it all that well. Would it come of kinda odd ?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Acceptable form of kino?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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haha.....
Don't grab the boobies.
I'd suggest her shoulder, or her forearm.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
don't "grab" anything...that's retarded. There are plenty of easier ways that sound stupid but work like a charm. Take something from her and gently hit her with it... bump into her and say "watch where you're going" and smile...
READ THE POSTS ON KINO IN THE DJ BIBLE
READ THE POSTS ON KINO IN THE DJ BIBLE
My brother, who gets a lot of chicks, thinks I should find out if she likes me or not. He says he always finds if she likes him or not before he trys anything with girls. He means by having a friend go up to her and asking her which I think is stupid. You got to take chances in my opinion.
You guys are saying to keep it subtle but I desperately want to keep it out of the friend zone so I do think a simple arm pat will do the trick.
You guys are saying to keep it subtle but I desperately want to keep it out of the friend zone so I do think a simple arm pat will do the trick.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
lmao...an arm pat sounds like something a friend would do...if she is going prom with you, you sound in the clear. Show her that youy are a male with desires, maybe not by saying "Im a man with desires" but the intensity in your eyes when you look at her, the way you hold onto her hand a little after she lets go, the way you talk about girls with friends, the way you don't gossip with her, etc... READ POSTS IN THE BIBLE ABOUT STAYING OUT OF THE FRIENDSHIP ZONE TOO...EVERYTHING YOU WANT IS ALREADY BEEN SAID BEFOREHAND!
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Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
or the vagina...
just throw an arm around her
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
your right, it is stupid and so is your brother if he does that. how does he get chicks
but hey, your on the right track. so cheers
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.