Academics v.s. Girls (and a Social Life)

[Contender]

My dilemma: doing well at school, and having the time to meet girls; and hang out with people socially.

 

[Taviii]

Both!

I kind of ignored school till this year. Now I'm learning hard during the week and partying as theres no tomorrow during the weekend. I do this because its my final year and I hope I get into a nice university this autumn.

 

[Contender]

How do you balance your time?

 

[RedPill]

My dilemma: doing well at school, and having the time to meet girls; and hang out with people socially.

I'm not saying don't have a good time ocassionally, but you're gonna notice something when you get done with school. You're going to see most of the people who partied constantly get their a** kicked by reality. Most of them have no plans for their life outside of party and get laid.

Actually, back in the school days if I hadn't been such an AFC dumba** I could have gotten laid frequently with minimal partying. Just remember what your priorities are - 1) building a great life for yourself 2) chicks. Most people go by herd mentality though and have those priorities backwards.

A side note... I can't tell you how many girls in college I inadvertantly got hot for me by blowing off because I acted like I had a thousand better things to do than deal with their petty dramas and games. In retrospect I could have easily scored with them while continuing to be the bookworm.

 

[Fitch]

I'm not saying don't have a good time ocassionally, but you're gonna notice something when you get done with school. You're going to see most of the people who partied constantly get their a** kicked by reality. Most of them have no plans for their life outside of party and get laid.

Actually, back in the school days if I hadn't been such an AFC dumba** I could have gotten laid frequently with minimal partying. Just remember what your priorities are - 1) building a great life for yourself 2) chicks. Most people go by herd mentality though and have those priorities backwards.

A side note... I can't tell you how many girls in college I inadvertantly got hot for me by blowing off because I acted like I had a thousand better things to do than deal with their petty dramas and games. In retrospect I could have easily scored with them while continuing to be the bookworm.

That's a very good point, actually; what college did you attend?

 

[Taviii]

I'm not saying don't have a good time ocassionally, but you're gonna notice something when you get done with school. You're going to see most of the people who partied constantly get their a** kicked by reality. Most of them have no plans for their life outside of party and get laid.

Actually, back in the school days if I hadn't been such an AFC dumba** I could have gotten laid frequently with minimal partying. Just remember what your priorities are - 1) building a great life for yourself 2) chicks. Most people go by herd mentality though and have those priorities backwards.

A side note... I can't tell you how many girls in college I inadvertantly got hot for me by blowing off because I acted like I had a thousand better things to do than deal with their petty dramas and games. In retrospect I could have easily scored with them while continuing to be the bookworm.

Building a great life for yourself and then go for chicks is great and will make it easier for you to succeed with girls. But you cant just spend 4 years focusing on yourself. That's why you need to balance it.

You attracted the chicks because you showed them that they are not really important in your life, or better said because they are not a priority for you, you could be happy without them. Your attitude was right. But that's it. You just didn't go further.

Why regret later? DO IT NOW!!!

 

[RedPill]

But you cant just spend 4 years focusing on yourself. That's why you need to balance it.

No kidding! That's why I'm working on year 26 of focusing on myself.

 

[Taviii]