Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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abs work that doesnt involve back?

dj ben2

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pretty simple question can anyone explain some ab work that doesnt put strain on your back? im getting to the lower bodyfat stage again where my abs will start to become visible so im starting ab work but every ab exercise i know puts strain on my back. not only is it uncomfortable but i cant see that it will be good for it in the long run either. also are abs trained in the low rep ranges or are they like calves and forearms where you need to have higher rep ranges to force them to grow?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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AAAgent

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if u go to a gym, they have those dip bars where u can also hold your body up and place your back on the pad and lift your legs to work your abs.

There also a ab workout then puts no strain on your lower back if lower back is your problem and not the whole back in general. just do regular crunches but only lift your upper back slightly off the ground. It looks like nothing but you will feel the burn. i do alot of those since i have a bad lower back.
 

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Exercise ball. Do crunches with your lower back braced on the ball.

Also, you can take your back out of the equation if you lay flat on the floor and mentally focus on your abs while doing leg raises and bicycles.
 

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also, what are some good ab exercises to really strengthen lower abs/abs in general? My hips kind of feel like they're rotated a little behind cause of the deadlifting and squating and stuff.
 

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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