"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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abs work that doesnt involve back?

dj ben2

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pretty simple question can anyone explain some ab work that doesnt put strain on your back? im getting to the lower bodyfat stage again where my abs will start to become visible so im starting ab work but every ab exercise i know puts strain on my back. not only is it uncomfortable but i cant see that it will be good for it in the long run either. also are abs trained in the low rep ranges or are they like calves and forearms where you need to have higher rep ranges to force them to grow?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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if u go to a gym, they have those dip bars where u can also hold your body up and place your back on the pad and lift your legs to work your abs.

There also a ab workout then puts no strain on your lower back if lower back is your problem and not the whole back in general. just do regular crunches but only lift your upper back slightly off the ground. It looks like nothing but you will feel the burn. i do alot of those since i have a bad lower back.
 

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Exercise ball. Do crunches with your lower back braced on the ball.

Also, you can take your back out of the equation if you lay flat on the floor and mentally focus on your abs while doing leg raises and bicycles.
 

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also, what are some good ab exercises to really strengthen lower abs/abs in general? My hips kind of feel like they're rotated a little behind cause of the deadlifting and squating and stuff.
 

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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