"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hey i was wondering if you guys could help me out. i've been working out for a few months now and my abs are getting bigger and starting to show up well. the only porblem is is the fact that some muscles are bigger than others and it seems that they are just randomly getting bigger, there really isn't a pattern or anything
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I-tallionStallion

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Thats quite strange...what do you do for your ab work out in the gym. It could be just genetic...
 

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i do inclined sit ups for my abs mostly. i alternate my reps with and without a 10 lb weight on my chest. 20 reps, 5 sets a day
 

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Incline situps? Do you mean decline? Maybe its the angle you are doing them. Make sure your doing your reps perfectly and um...why are you doin so many reps and sets everyday. Give yourself sometime to grow dude.

Your totally overtraining the muscles. I don't know your goals but for me i do 2x10 Heavy decline ab work maybe twice a week. Your abs are not any different from any other muscle in your body. So don't treat them different then say your bicepts. You'll slow down your progress tremendously if not make them worse.

If your still worried look at pics of other body builders, to see if its genetic, or go see a doctor if its freaky looking.
 

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Hey I have the same situation. My abs are not symmetrical or geometric.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Geometric?
What?
 

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You're not a perfectly sculpted mannequin in a window, your abs will not develop perfectly symmetrical. It's perfectly normal and 100% genetic. It's just the way your tendons cut through your abdominals.
 

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Hahaha, unlucky you have Jay Cutler - esque abs. That does suck.

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Mad Manic said:
Hahaha, unlucky you have Jay Cutler - esque abs. That does suck.

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Ya non proportional abs look hideous. They are so ugly to look at. I would rather have a no six pack than have one of those. :p
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Just have them light man. Or just say fawk you to anyone that gives a shyt.

Personally even though I could care less what women think, I wouldn't want to develop in a sport that some would consider handicapped from the get go. I'm missing half of my pointer finger, and what did I do? Weight lift. Play the guitar. Every extreme sport I could. You don't see me throwing a football or a baseball just because other people do it. I look like a tard trying to throw a spiral. Even though anyone can overcome adversity... Just some food for thought.
 
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