zielinski1
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i want to get some nice abs and arm muscle fast but i don't know how to. if you have any ideas on how to please let me know thanks.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I don't know if you're serious or being your normal smart ass self, but this is true. My biceps and lats blew up when I got a bar for my doorframe. If you can do 10 full-range pullups you're doing OK.Drum&Bass said:buy yourself a door gym or a pull up bar and do a bunch of pull ups everyday in your spare time, in in 3 -5 months you will see a difference in 1 year your arms and back will be massive, do the same thing with your abs do gymnastic style of training abs everyday in your spare time and voila...abs in arms in a few months
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I want to become a racecar driver but I only have a cardboard box and a frisbee.zielinski1 said:yea but i only have 15lb weights and the resistant bungee ropes. i dont have the whole bench and all that kinda stuff .
If you weight as much as a small pickup then obviously pushups will be more than enough.LikeTheWind said:I disagree, you don't NEED weights to get big, but it would definitely would help. I got big before I had weights. Push-ups and pull-ups. Obviously your chest won't get as big with push-ups but my triceps did. And my biceps did.
It's not just the weight, its the length of time you hold the weight for. 2 seconds contract, no rest, 3 seconds release, no rest, repeat for next rep.One of my friends can curl about twice as much as me and weights more than me, curls all the time, etc. But my biceps are bigger than his, I weigh less than him, I can do more pull-ups and curl less weight more for more reps. He can curl more weight for less reps, etc. So you don't NEED it, but it definitely can help.
whats your definition of big?LikeTheWind said:I disagree, you don't NEED weights to get big
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I read a post a little while ago about a 140lb kid talking about himself being muscular and ripped.I-tallionStallion said:I find it very interesing that there are guys on here who call being 150-180 pounds big.
I'm 190lbs 5'11 and I consider myself average.EFFORT said:whats your definition of big?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
lol EFFORT this is like how people post "Read the Bible" in the other DJ forums.EFFORT said:Check the vault and the post where to start, get the idea of fast and specific muscles out of your head though.
I wish I wasn't.LikeTheWind said:Guess you were right.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.