zielinski1
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i want to get some nice abs and arm muscle fast but i don't know how to. if you have any ideas on how to please let me know thanks.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I don't know if you're serious or being your normal smart ass self, but this is true. My biceps and lats blew up when I got a bar for my doorframe. If you can do 10 full-range pullups you're doing OK.Drum&Bass said:buy yourself a door gym or a pull up bar and do a bunch of pull ups everyday in your spare time, in in 3 -5 months you will see a difference in 1 year your arms and back will be massive, do the same thing with your abs do gymnastic style of training abs everyday in your spare time and voila...abs in arms in a few months
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I want to become a racecar driver but I only have a cardboard box and a frisbee.zielinski1 said:yea but i only have 15lb weights and the resistant bungee ropes. i dont have the whole bench and all that kinda stuff .
If you weight as much as a small pickup then obviously pushups will be more than enough.LikeTheWind said:I disagree, you don't NEED weights to get big, but it would definitely would help. I got big before I had weights. Push-ups and pull-ups. Obviously your chest won't get as big with push-ups but my triceps did. And my biceps did.
It's not just the weight, its the length of time you hold the weight for. 2 seconds contract, no rest, 3 seconds release, no rest, repeat for next rep.One of my friends can curl about twice as much as me and weights more than me, curls all the time, etc. But my biceps are bigger than his, I weigh less than him, I can do more pull-ups and curl less weight more for more reps. He can curl more weight for less reps, etc. So you don't NEED it, but it definitely can help.
whats your definition of big?LikeTheWind said:I disagree, you don't NEED weights to get big
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I read a post a little while ago about a 140lb kid talking about himself being muscular and ripped.I-tallionStallion said:I find it very interesing that there are guys on here who call being 150-180 pounds big.
I'm 190lbs 5'11 and I consider myself average.EFFORT said:whats your definition of big?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
lol EFFORT this is like how people post "Read the Bible" in the other DJ forums.EFFORT said:Check the vault and the post where to start, get the idea of fast and specific muscles out of your head though.
I wish I wasn't.LikeTheWind said:Guess you were right.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.