About to try a new game plan...

[Pair A Dice]

Well, there is this girl at my apartment complex that I've only seen once walking around, but I know what car she drives. I am considering on putting a Post-It Note on her windshield with something quick and to the point of seeing if she's single and going from there, possibly give her my number or e-mail on it to get in touch with me.

Any ideas on what to write on the note or is this a stupid idea? I hardly see her, so if I happened to see her before this, I'd go for that in person, but otherwise, this will have to do.

Edit: Let me also state that when I saw her earlier, we struck up a short, pleasant conversation on our respective walks to our apartments. It last one minute tops, just about regular stuff.

 

[grayclif]

Creepy brah! She's gonna think you're a stalker. Just spin plates. When she sees girls entering or leaving your apt. she'll find a way to meet you if she is single.

 

[Die Hard]

Could it be possible that you're looking for an easy way out here? I mean, is it really that difficult to get to talk to her in person?

She lives in the same apartment complex, it would be weird if you don't run into her again in the near future... Perhaps you don't have the patience to wait for this because your desire is too strong? Keep it in check, then... Be in control of yourself!

My advice is to forget about her. It's bullsh!t thinking you won't run into her again, that's just your desire pushing you to do stupid things... So forget about her! Then when you least expect it, all of a sudden, you will run into her. It always goes like that

If you really can't wait for that chance, then at least just find out at which appartment she lives and have the balls to go there and confront her. That kind of boldness always reaps more success than insecure actions like putting a note on her windscreen...

But like I said, I would just be patient and keep your eagerness to meet her in check, you'll run into her again eventually.

 

[Boilermaker]

post it note on her windshield ??

hahahahhahaha

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Double dices,
Great idea,but silly to ask her if she has other relationships....soo needy...Naah....See when she seems to have some time,then pen a note,"I am Harry from No nine,generally go to (say) Alberts for a coffee on Saturday morning,you seem an interesting person,maybe join me?I'll knock on your door about elevenish Harry (Phone No)"....when you go round you will certainly get a reaction,if she has a fellah in tow,she will text a refusal,no refusal you are in like Flynn.

 

[Pair A Dice]

Guys, I know it kind of sounds creepy, but I wanted to step outside of my comfort zone. If I see her again, I'll ask her in person. Problem is, I don't see her enough. C'est la vie.

 

[bilboteabaggins]

do it, I know a girl that told this story about a unknown guy putting a note under her dorm door and it got her all tore up and she went out with the guy for a long time eventually, after he played with her for weeks with notes....its called mystery and girls eat it up, the note needs to be real good though

take a chance if you wanna do it that way, a man doesn't care what others think, he goes with what he wants to do

 

[scrouds]

It doesn't count creepy, it is creepy.

You had a nice pleasant conversation with her. Keep that up and you'll have made a nice friend. If you win her trust, she may even start confiding in you and telling you about the men in her life that use her like a fuktoy and throw her out.

Finally, what does it matter if she's single. Why should you care?

 

[Pair A Dice]

It doesn't count creepy, it is creepy.

You had a nice pleasant conversation with her. Keep that up and you'll have made a nice friend. If you win her trust, she may even start confiding in you and telling you about the men in her life that use her like a fuktoy and throw her out.

Finally, what does it matter if she's single. Why should you care?

I see what you're getting at. I definitely don't want a friend out of her, from what I've seen. She's too cute not to ravish.

What does it matter if she's single? I'm not a guy to go after women who are in relationships. I hold myself to a higher moral fiber.

 

[Lexington]

Like said above, the posit-it note approach is going to come off as really creepy. Your best bet is to talk to her face to face. You will run into her again at some point (if not by chance, you can find a way to make it happen). Have a pleasant chat with her and at the end just whip out your phone and say that she seems pretty cool and that you'd like to hang out some time. Hand her the phone and tell her to enter the number. Then call her to make sure she has your number.

 

[Pair A Dice]

I hear you guys. Also, I am still meeting other women and not putting all of my eggs into this basket. It's something that popped into my head once (post-it note) and wanted to gauge what you all felt about it.

 

[scrouds]

I see what you're getting at. I definitely don't want a friend out of her, from what I've seen. She's too cute not to ravish.

What does it matter if she's single? I'm not a guy to go after women who are in relationships. I hold myself to a higher moral fiber.

Your "moral fiber" is concocted by society to keep you down. The key I feel is a long term realignment of your moral compass to more closely align with real world risk and reward, instead of what was drilled in to you by god and society.