"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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About To Meet Girl!!

frivolousz21

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ive been talking to online since november 2nd.....

haha...thats ****ed..I am nervous...I am going to drink 2 shots of jack on the way to get her..DJ or not..meeting someone after hours of talking over this long makes me nervous!

WOOO HOOOO :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Just try not to have unrealistic expectations...that is almost always the result of months of internet communication with no real-life interaction.
 

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I Know..this is only the 2nd person I have meet off the internet...I have no unrealistic expectations..I just hope its good enuf to see the person again..if its not...then its all good.
 

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Gre8 that you're excited on going to know a new chick :)

Dont try to please her, dont ask if she wants this or that, just be like, lets go here, lets do this. Have fun with your date instead of trying too hard to make a good impression, and you'll leave an ever better impression.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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'unrealistic' in mr.code's post simply cannot be stressed enough.
 

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obviously she wants me for me..and exspects me to be who i have been..thats why i have to relax..if i am nervous..well she will just be as much as me if not more.

whats the best way to keep that desire going?
 

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Kino = Gold

I cannot stress enough the power of kino done in a very natural, relaxed and fun way! I've seen just insane results from having a fun conversation while touching the girl in various ways. Ideally the touches should be subtle and done almost without thinking. For example touching her leg with yours without looking down at them, or poking her in the arm after a joke, etc.

There are probably several posts in the DJ Bible about kino...it might help you to review them.
 
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