"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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About To Meet Girl!!

frivolousz21

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ive been talking to online since november 2nd.....

haha...thats ****ed..I am nervous...I am going to drink 2 shots of jack on the way to get her..DJ or not..meeting someone after hours of talking over this long makes me nervous!

WOOO HOOOO :)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Just try not to have unrealistic expectations...that is almost always the result of months of internet communication with no real-life interaction.
 

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I Know..this is only the 2nd person I have meet off the internet...I have no unrealistic expectations..I just hope its good enuf to see the person again..if its not...then its all good.
 

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Gre8 that you're excited on going to know a new chick :)

Dont try to please her, dont ask if she wants this or that, just be like, lets go here, lets do this. Have fun with your date instead of trying too hard to make a good impression, and you'll leave an ever better impression.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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'unrealistic' in mr.code's post simply cannot be stressed enough.
 

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obviously she wants me for me..and exspects me to be who i have been..thats why i have to relax..if i am nervous..well she will just be as much as me if not more.

whats the best way to keep that desire going?
 

MrCode

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Kino = Gold

I cannot stress enough the power of kino done in a very natural, relaxed and fun way! I've seen just insane results from having a fun conversation while touching the girl in various ways. Ideally the touches should be subtle and done almost without thinking. For example touching her leg with yours without looking down at them, or poking her in the arm after a joke, etc.

There are probably several posts in the DJ Bible about kino...it might help you to review them.
 
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