"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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About to head out to a lounge.... some advice

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There is no question that i was a bigger DJ about 5 years ago and i stepped out of the game for a while. But now, I dont necessarily want to get back in, I just want to brush up on my skills a bit. Anyway, there is this cute bartender that walks around offering drinks, she looks about 28 or 29 but has a 7 face and a 9 body. when she comes by and offers a drink, i want to ask her name and smoothly say in her ear "I think your very sexy". Dont get me wrong.. Not in a AFC way but smoothly and smiling/smerking. should i do it or may i come off like a huge AFC?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Amante Silvestre said:
I would advise against this. In fact, I suggest you ask her how many times a night she get's cheesy pick up lines.

Great ice breaker. Ask her for examples.


You learn what NOT to do while playing cool at the same time...
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Hmm... Maybe so. I tried it a long time ago when i was in a strong DJ state of mind and worked well, like i said before... Ive slipped since then so thats why im not too sure. maybe ill go against it.
 
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