"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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About to head out to a lounge.... some advice

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There is no question that i was a bigger DJ about 5 years ago and i stepped out of the game for a while. But now, I dont necessarily want to get back in, I just want to brush up on my skills a bit. Anyway, there is this cute bartender that walks around offering drinks, she looks about 28 or 29 but has a 7 face and a 9 body. when she comes by and offers a drink, i want to ask her name and smoothly say in her ear "I think your very sexy". Dont get me wrong.. Not in a AFC way but smoothly and smiling/smerking. should i do it or may i come off like a huge AFC?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Amante Silvestre said:
I would advise against this. In fact, I suggest you ask her how many times a night she get's cheesy pick up lines.

Great ice breaker. Ask her for examples.


You learn what NOT to do while playing cool at the same time...
Hmm... Maybe so. I tried it a long time ago when i was in a strong DJ state of mind and worked well, like i said before... Ive slipped since then so thats why im not too sure. maybe ill go against it.
 
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