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About to head out to a lounge.... some advice

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There is no question that i was a bigger DJ about 5 years ago and i stepped out of the game for a while. But now, I dont necessarily want to get back in, I just want to brush up on my skills a bit. Anyway, there is this cute bartender that walks around offering drinks, she looks about 28 or 29 but has a 7 face and a 9 body. when she comes by and offers a drink, i want to ask her name and smoothly say in her ear "I think your very sexy". Dont get me wrong.. Not in a AFC way but smoothly and smiling/smerking. should i do it or may i come off like a huge AFC?
 

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Amante Silvestre said:
I would advise against this. In fact, I suggest you ask her how many times a night she get's cheesy pick up lines.

Great ice breaker. Ask her for examples.


You learn what NOT to do while playing cool at the same time...
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Hmm... Maybe so. I tried it a long time ago when i was in a strong DJ state of mind and worked well, like i said before... Ive slipped since then so thats why im not too sure. maybe ill go against it.
 
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