39year_old_virgin
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
About to become the real 40 year old virgin in 3 months
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
speed dawg
Master Don Juan
Of course you can. Welcome to the board, stick around awhile, it will help. You need a complete overhaul of how you look at the world. I'm not talking about changing your personality. I'm talking about gaining confidence, being secure in your own skin, and attitude.
From an outsider's perspective, your shyness and lack of confidence has caused a spiral in your life and caused you look at things much more negatively. We will change that.
The FIRST thing I think you should do, and again this is my opinion, is start getting in shape. Keep yourself looking sharp. Strive to reach your potential every day.
From an outsider's perspective, your shyness and lack of confidence has caused a spiral in your life and caused you look at things much more negatively. We will change that.
The FIRST thing I think you should do, and again this is my opinion, is start getting in shape. Keep yourself looking sharp. Strive to reach your potential every day.
39year_old_virgin
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Thanks, and I am sorry, this is a copy of my other post, I meant to post it in the mm forum, sorry about that.
Da Realist
Master Don Juan
All I have to say is forget you're turning 40 and that a complete transformation has to happen in just a couple of months. The first step is to realize your happiness comes from within and not the woman you WILL have on your arm. Like speed dawg said, get in shape. The put down the game for a while and become constructive. No work? Volunteer. Plenty of women there, you look a little less creepy, you get out, and it looks good on the resume that you did something productive while you were out of work. You got a lot of work ahead and the only choice you need to make is to see things through.