39year_old_virgin
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
About to become the real 40 year old virgin in 3 months
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
speed dawg
Master Don Juan
Of course you can. Welcome to the board, stick around awhile, it will help. You need a complete overhaul of how you look at the world. I'm not talking about changing your personality. I'm talking about gaining confidence, being secure in your own skin, and attitude.
From an outsider's perspective, your shyness and lack of confidence has caused a spiral in your life and caused you look at things much more negatively. We will change that.
The FIRST thing I think you should do, and again this is my opinion, is start getting in shape. Keep yourself looking sharp. Strive to reach your potential every day.
From an outsider's perspective, your shyness and lack of confidence has caused a spiral in your life and caused you look at things much more negatively. We will change that.
The FIRST thing I think you should do, and again this is my opinion, is start getting in shape. Keep yourself looking sharp. Strive to reach your potential every day.
39year_old_virgin
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Thanks, and I am sorry, this is a copy of my other post, I meant to post it in the mm forum, sorry about that.
Da Realist
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All I have to say is forget you're turning 40 and that a complete transformation has to happen in just a couple of months. The first step is to realize your happiness comes from within and not the woman you WILL have on your arm. Like speed dawg said, get in shape. The put down the game for a while and become constructive. No work? Volunteer. Plenty of women there, you look a little less creepy, you get out, and it looks good on the resume that you did something productive while you were out of work. You got a lot of work ahead and the only choice you need to make is to see things through.