About to be blown off?

[onemorerobot]

Now suppose she calls and wants to hang out after she gets out of class? I have a feeling this might happen. I really do want to hang out with this girl and I don't want to reschedule again, but she's going to have to get her **** together. I mean, she could have just called me earlier to tell me she wasn't going to be able to make it.

 

[Tazman]

I don't think it's worth the hassle anymore. She likes your attention, and that's about it. If she really did want to hang out it would've happened already, without hesitation. Don't let her keep toying with you, if she wants to hang out let her do the work this time, don't sit around looking at the clock waiting for her to call, thats what SHE should be doing. She noticed you not paying her attention so she comments on your hair-cut, you should've taken it in stride instead of asking for her approval (if she liked it).

She didn't compliment you, she just said "he's got a haircut" and you sought a compliment out of her, not good. Let her come to you now, even if you see her in person, be polite and move on as if you have more important matters, don't feed the AW, I really do hate chicks who do this.

 

[onemorerobot]

Ok, well now I am really confused. She just called me from school. It was like nothing had even happened. She didn't even mention us hanging out today. I think maybe she misunderstood me yesterday, thought I was busy today. She asked me what I did today. She told me we definitely need to get together again. I'm not really sure. This girl told me on our first "date" that she has ADD. I'm not trying to make excuses for the girl. I honestly don't know what to think right now. She had to go, but asked me if she could call me back.

 

[WhitePimp]

Dude...are you enjoying this? If not, then just choose not to play games anymore. If you just want to hang with a girl and have fun, then find a girl who wants to do that and doesnt need to play this bull**** to try and get guys attracted to her.

 

[Phyzzle]

As we see a few posts ago:

SHE just called me from work and wants to hang out sometime this week. I told her I'd have to check my schedule first.

You're BOTH playing games.

If she called you to hang out, just answer yes or no. Just make a dam date already. A time and a place. Then if she flakes again, you can stop thinking about it.

 

[Tazman]

Ok, well now I am really confused. She just called me from school. It was like nothing had even happened. She didn't even mention us hanging out today. I think maybe she misunderstood me yesterday, thought I was busy today. She asked me what I did today. She told me we definitely need to get together again. I'm not really sure. This girl told me on our first "date" that she has ADD. I'm not trying to make excuses for the girl. I honestly don't know what to think right now. She had to go, but asked me if she could call me back.

Dude.....you ARE making excuses. Hanging out with a chick that sincerely likes you is NEVER this hard.

 

[mrRuckus]

Dude...are you enjoying this? If not, then just choose not to play games anymore. If you just want to hang with a girl and have fun, then find a girl who wants to do that and doesnt need to play this bull**** to try and get guys attracted to her.

Does that actually attract guys more?

I personally just love when they're immediately smitten to me and are agreeable to anything and any time i ask of them. I mean as long as they're not compromising themselves for it. It makes me feel awesome that i'm that cool that she can't resist so i like her more.

I guess I just don't really want a challenge. I just find it beyond annoying to screw around when we could be hanging out and being naked and having a grand ol time.