"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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About the age thing...

ChrizZ

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Hi,

I'll keep it short and sweet.

I'm in college and I got three coffee dates with three different women next week. They are all seniors and I'm a freshman.

From my experience *****es don't like it when the guy is significantly younger than them. I still wanna tap that ass though.

Should I tell them my real age, lie, or just change the topic?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DoctorLW

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Actually, you have the right idea. As a freshman you should date the upper classmen. Junior and senior girls are pretty desperate. They either have a boyfriend and are in a relationship, or have no one and desperately want one. Meanwhile senior and junior guys are chasing the freshman and sophomores who are newer and haven't put on that extra 15 lbs yet.

You see, college works differently for guys and girls. For chicks, college gets worse each year for them. For guys, it only gets better. I wouldn't worry about your age at all, as long as you have some semblance of maturity (freshman tend to be dumbasses fresh out of high school).
 

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Your not in highschool anymore, freshmen vs senior isn't an issue. Just be yourself, you don't want to waste your time with someone who'll dismiss you because your a year or two younger.

I date women 10 years younger than me, its not an issue, don't even think about it anymore.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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ChrizZ said:
...From my experience *****es don't like it when the guy is significantly younger than them. I still wanna tap that ass though.
Older women don't like it younger guys who act like little boys just wanting to tap *****es asses.
 

Gangster Of Love

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DoctorLW said:
Actually, you have the right idea. As a freshman you should date the upper classmen. Junior and senior girls are pretty desperate. They either have a boyfriend and are in a relationship, or have no one and desperately want one. Meanwhile senior and junior guys are chasing the freshman and sophomores who are newer and haven't put on that extra 15 lbs yet.

You see, college works differently for guys and girls. For chicks, college gets worse each year for them. For guys, it only gets better. I wouldn't worry about your age at all, as long as you have some semblance of maturity (freshman tend to be dumbasses fresh out of high school).
Let me break it to you professor, 21-22 year old college girls, everything being equal, are the furthest from desperate.

As to the OP, just sarge them normal. If it is a big deal to you, it will to them.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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mongolboy

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gangster of love ifeel ya myan loving that quote
Don't wish it was easier; wish you were better. Don't wish for less problems; wish for more skills. Don't wish for less challenges; wish for more wisdom."
shii myan this is the prospective everysingle mo****a should have imma keep on spreadin this quote if yo don mind.. ya dig?
 
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