"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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About the age thing...

ChrizZ

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Hi,

I'll keep it short and sweet.

I'm in college and I got three coffee dates with three different women next week. They are all seniors and I'm a freshman.

From my experience *****es don't like it when the guy is significantly younger than them. I still wanna tap that ass though.

Should I tell them my real age, lie, or just change the topic?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DoctorLW

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Actually, you have the right idea. As a freshman you should date the upper classmen. Junior and senior girls are pretty desperate. They either have a boyfriend and are in a relationship, or have no one and desperately want one. Meanwhile senior and junior guys are chasing the freshman and sophomores who are newer and haven't put on that extra 15 lbs yet.

You see, college works differently for guys and girls. For chicks, college gets worse each year for them. For guys, it only gets better. I wouldn't worry about your age at all, as long as you have some semblance of maturity (freshman tend to be dumbasses fresh out of high school).
 

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Your not in highschool anymore, freshmen vs senior isn't an issue. Just be yourself, you don't want to waste your time with someone who'll dismiss you because your a year or two younger.

I date women 10 years younger than me, its not an issue, don't even think about it anymore.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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ChrizZ said:
...From my experience *****es don't like it when the guy is significantly younger than them. I still wanna tap that ass though.
Older women don't like it younger guys who act like little boys just wanting to tap *****es asses.
 

Gangster Of Love

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DoctorLW said:
Actually, you have the right idea. As a freshman you should date the upper classmen. Junior and senior girls are pretty desperate. They either have a boyfriend and are in a relationship, or have no one and desperately want one. Meanwhile senior and junior guys are chasing the freshman and sophomores who are newer and haven't put on that extra 15 lbs yet.

You see, college works differently for guys and girls. For chicks, college gets worse each year for them. For guys, it only gets better. I wouldn't worry about your age at all, as long as you have some semblance of maturity (freshman tend to be dumbasses fresh out of high school).
Let me break it to you professor, 21-22 year old college girls, everything being equal, are the furthest from desperate.

As to the OP, just sarge them normal. If it is a big deal to you, it will to them.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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mongolboy

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gangster of love ifeel ya myan loving that quote
Don't wish it was easier; wish you were better. Don't wish for less problems; wish for more skills. Don't wish for less challenges; wish for more wisdom."
shii myan this is the prospective everysingle mo****a should have imma keep on spreadin this quote if yo don mind.. ya dig?
 
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