m4a1
Senior Don Juan
Seriously, what do all the posts above have to do with what Metaphysikal_Lover said?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
It doesn't. It has to do with what johnny_chase said and what Interpol and MsThang turned it into.Originally posted by m4a1
Seriously, what do all the posts above have to do with what Metaphysikal_Lover said?
The fact is that the thing that Metaphysikal_Lover said is the same thing that everybody has said constantly from as long as I can remember. There is always a new, constant stream of newbies, they often think that their problems are unique and different, and they often neglect to read the DJ Bible. Some of the same people who make these complaints were also newbies who thought that their problems were unique and who failed to read the DJ Bible.Originally posted by m4a1
Seriously, what do all the posts above have to do with what Metaphysikal_Lover said?
I always thought this place needed more of a dictatorship and Eternal would fit the bill perfectly.Eternal can't unilaterally ban posters... yet. (And we must fight against that possibility )![]()
With Silquee trading jokes with the moderators in Anything Else, maybe he's perfect as a potential new moderator!Originally posted by Silquee Smoove
I always thought this place needed more of a dictatorship and Eternal would fit the bill perfectly.
He's established himself as Alpha-Moderator.![]()
I wanted to reply to this but the Gio vs. CutiiepieReturns thread was closed.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Silquee, welcome to the "short list".Originally posted by Eternal
With Silquee trading jokes with the moderators in Anything Else, maybe he's perfect as a potential new moderator!![]()
Don't forget, he has too low a post count.Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Silquee, welcome to the "short list".
Better prepare yourself by developing a really thick skin and, you know, try to become a little more despised on the forum. You're a little too well-liked to be a moderator at the moment.
Your post count was only like 58 before you became a moderator... then you had made 200 "Moved to Anything Else" and "Thread Closed Because I'm a Nazi" posts every day and that adds up quickly.Originally posted by Eternal
Don't forget, he has too low a post count.![]()
*Direct quote from my girlfriend after she read that* "heehehe, how sweet."Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Your post count was only like 58 before you became a moderator... then you had made 200 "Moved to Anything Else" and "Thread Closed Because I'm a Nazi" posts every day and that adds up quickly.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Now let's not give Allen any hasty ideas there man!Originally posted by diablo
if our post count was reset to 0.
Thanks for the vote of confidence, Eternal, but I'm traveling around the country a little too much at the moment to be of any real use to the boards.With Silquee trading jokes with the moderators in Anything Else, maybe he's perfect as a potential new moderator
I'm like you, Gio, I "go with the flow" too much to really go against the people unless it's happens to be that they are going against the rules, then I'll side with mods.Silquee, welcome to the "short list".
Better prepare yourself by developing a really thick skin and, you know, try to become a little more despised on the forum. You're a little too well-liked to be a moderator at the moment.
That is a good idea diablo, then the numbers wouldn't matter and it would be sole advice and what you contribute that would be left.if our post count was reset to 0.
I don't think I am the youngest moderator. Sammo and Nocturnal are both 17 and BBB is 18, same with Vincent.Originally posted by Silquee Smoove
Anyhow I'll give the reasons why I think Eternal has established himself as top mod.
-He has the highest post count in SoSuave.com history
-He currently is public enemy number one with his moderating style and"he has established that he has legit heat" with more than a few forum members.
-He's the youngest mod that I know of and he has taken initiative and authority.
-Most of this stems off of the "Carpe Diem" mentality and "Stop looking for perfection or you'll be looking at porn" philosophy.
Ever consider a career in politics, Eternal?
Thank You. I came back to find this post and watched it's twists and turns...wooooo. It sure got off topic. Now I can see what I've done on others threads before.Originally posted by m4a1
Seriously, what do all the posts above have to do with what Metaphysikal_Lover said? Moderators complain about threads that are a waste of space, and then this...
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Sure if thats what you like to call it. Or maybe I've been here long enough to know what will benefit and hurt the site.Originally posted by MsThang
Don't give the moderators ideas, recently they've been being nazi enough as is. (They're job is NOT to close every thread that they dislike for personal reasons because they're 18 year-olds going on power trips.)
Don't start with the "I've been here long enough" speech. Look at your registered date, look at mine.Originally posted by Vincent
Sure if thats what you like to call it. Or maybe I've been here long enough to know what will benefit and hurt the site.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.