"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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WesCottII

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
I just cannot fathom how a moderator closing a thread -- no matter how unwarranted that decision may or may not be -- compares to rounding up millions people based on their religion and/or ethnicity, using them as slave labor, or raping and slaughtering them.
Perhaps. Just perhaps, MsThang may have been refering to the freedom of speech. Or lack thereof.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by WesCottII
Perhaps. Just perhaps, MsThang may have been refering to the freedom of speech. Or lack thereof.
Well if I was truly a Nazi, shouldn't I be gassing you to death for saying that?
 

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Hmmm, then by your definition, by calling you Gio cassanova, you should be pulling women like a magent.

*dramatic pause*

You're not though.
 
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why dont yall just RELAX!

Some of these posts sure are dumb.. but thats the point of this message board.. to help the useless.

Regaurdless of what kinda FAQ page you put up or make them do some kind of stupid questionaire.. there will always be dumb posts..

Vos vestros servate, meos mihi linquite mores. ~ You cling to your own ways and leave mine to me
 

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Originally posted by CutiepiieReturns
why dont yall just RELAX!

Some of these posts sure are dumb.. but thats the point of this message board.. to help the useless.

Regaurdless of what kinda FAQ page you put up or make them do some kind of stupid questionaire.. there will always be dumb posts..

Vos vestros servate, meos mihi linquite mores. ~ You cling to your own ways and leave mine to me
Shut the hell up.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by WesCottII
Hmmm, then by your definition, by calling you Gio cassanova, you should be pulling women like a magent.

*dramatic pause*

You're not though.
#1 - You know jack sh*t about me.
#2 - You're a dumbass.
#3 - Me calling myself Giovanni Casanova doesn't make light of the genocide of millions of people.
#4 - I have all the women I need, thanks.
 

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:rolleyes: Am i Really?....... :rolleyes:


1) Don't want to know anything about you. Frankly it would be boring.
2)No. I'm really not.
3) Never alluded to the fact it did. In fact you were the one making light of it.
4)Good for you. Please don't re-produce.
 
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Originally posted by WesCottII
:rolleyes: Am i Really?....... :rolleyes:


1) Don't want to know anything about you. Frankly it would be boring.
2)No. I'm really not.
3) Never alluded to the fact it did. In fact you were the one making light of it.
4)Good for you. Please don't re-produce.
LMMFAO... I GUESS HE SURE TOLD YOU ASSANOVA
 

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Originally posted by WesCottII
Never alluded to the fact it did. In fact you were the one making light of it.

You agreed that a moderator closing a thread was the same as gassing people to death.

I don't know, maybe that's just what they teach you in Germany.
 

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Originally posted by CutiepiieReturns
LMMFAO... I GUESS HE SURE TOLD YOU ASSANOVA
Shut the hell up.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova

You agreed that a moderator closing a thread was the same as gassing people to death.

I don't know, maybe that's just what they teach you in Germany. [/B]
YOU SHUT THE HELL UP
 

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova

I don't know, maybe that's just what they teach you in Germany. [/B]
I'm English. Living in Germany. And quote me, without editing, where i agreed modding was like gassing people please.
 

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Originally posted by WesCottII
I'm English. Living in Germany. And quote me, without editing, where i agreed modding was like gassing people please.
I don't care what nationality you are. Just pointing out that you're sitting in Germany while comparing internet moderating to Nazism. It's a fun little irony.

When you agreed that moderators = Nazis.

I don't know, maybe you didn't have any history classes. If not, you should look up what Nazis were, and what they did. Then tell me if you think that compares with locking a stupid f*cking pointless thread about someone wanting guys to look at their picture and talk about it.
 

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
I don't care what nationality you are. Just pointing out that you're sitting in Germany while comparing internet moderating to Nazism. It's a fun little irony.

When you agreed that moderators = Nazis.

I don't know, maybe you didn't have any history classes. If not, you should look up what Nazis were, and what they did. Then tell me if you think that compares with locking a stupid f*cking pointless thread about someone wanting guys to look at their picture and talk about it.
Apologies for the nazi thing. You're right, it's wrong. Fascists, maybe?
 

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Originally posted by MsThang
Apologies for the nazi thing. You're right, it's wrong. Fascists, maybe?
Yes, I am a total fascist. Apologies accepted on the Nazi thing.

And you know what else I heard? Moderators are b*tches. I won't tell you who told me that, I'm just sayin...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I say moderators, being the informed people that they are should know the DJ Bible very well and be able to find any piece of information.

Therefore, any thread with a dumb-àss question should be closed by a moderator with a link referring to the post(s) in the DJ Bible answering the aforementioned question.
 

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Moderators are b*tches. I won't tell you who told me that, I'm just sayin...
Really? I heard they were narcistic nazi's on power trips...Though I'm just saying...

*WOO!!!!!!!!! 5000!!!*
 

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Originally posted by Eternal
Really? I heard they were narcistic nazi's on power trips...Though I'm just saying...

*WOO!!!!!!!!! 5000!!!*
You're a b*tch, Mister 5000.
 

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Seriously, what do all the posts above have to do with what Metaphysikal_Lover said? Moderators complain about threads that are a waste of space, and then this...
 

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Originally posted by m4a1
Seriously, what do all the posts above have to do with what Metaphysikal_Lover said? Moderators complain about threads that are a waste of space, and then this...
Correction: We close threads that are a waste of space. People complain because we close a thread.

See the difference?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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