I was just wondering. I did quite some cold approaches in the couple of last weeks. How much small talk does one have to make before asking for a number? Is there a rule for that? I sometimes have the feeling I'm asking too soon.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
About small talk and number closing
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