I was just wondering. I did quite some cold approaches in the couple of last weeks. How much small talk does one have to make before asking for a number? Is there a rule for that? I sometimes have the feeling I'm asking too soon.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
About small talk and number closing
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