"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hello everybody...
There's a topic that I don't see being discussed as it should be, IMO. There goes...

Is there a way to know if your kiss is good?
I mean, thanks to this site/forum, I became able to get almost all girls I wanted. But I see that I always avoid meeting girls I already know because I feel my kissing is not good and she will probably talk about it whit the others grils that I know too.

In my case, there's a girl triying to get me and all our friends already know. So, I'm feeling kinda... there's no way out, I'll have to get her. What if my kissing sucks?

So... is there any tips about ewhat to do in this kind of sutuation?

(sorry for the poor english)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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CarlosAndradeDJ2 said:
Hello everybody...
There's a topic that I don't see being discussed as it should be, IMO. There goes...

Is there a way to know if your kiss is good?
I mean, thanks to this site/forum, I became able to get almost all girls I wanted. But I see that I always avoid meeting girls I already know because I feel my kissing is not good and she will probably talk about it whit the others grils that I know too.

In my case, there's a girl triying to get me and all our friends already know. So, I'm feeling kinda... there's no way out, I'll have to get her. What if my kissing sucks?

So... is there any tips about ewhat to do in this kind of sutuation?

(sorry for the poor english)
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kissing gets better with practice.
so get out there and start practicing.
 
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penkitten said:
kissing gets better with practice.
so get out there and start practicing.
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Yeah, that's what I do.
But I practice with girls I won't see again in my life, and now there's a different situation...
 
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you can always watch movies and see how the actors/actresses kiss each other...use that as a baseline. (not pron..not much kissing going on there).

practice makes perfect.

you can always go with a embrace and strong single kiss. No need to go and fully make out the first time around...if you arent ready for it..dont do it. she will like it either way.

dont kiss and run away. be mature about it.
 
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CarlosAndradeDJ2 said:
Yeah, that's what I do.
But I practice with girls I won't see again in my life, and now there's a different situation...
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so its free practice! you never have to face them again so all you can do is get better and better.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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penkitten said:
so its free practice! you never have to face them again so all you can do is get better and better.
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I explained badly...
Now, I will HAVE to get a girl that I WILL se again... that's the problem, I just haven't praticed enough and just won't be able to kiss her well... :( lol
 
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Search the website there are tonnes of topics on kissing, and best way to learn is to practice as people have already said, once you get good you can experiment with kissing and try different things, read the karma sutra for tips on kissing etc.

And remember your kissing doesnt suck, if she's kissing you she's kissing you who cares if you suck you have to start somewhere.
 
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You might think i'm lying but every chick i've ever kissed (even my first kiss) said i was a good kisser. When I kiss a chick for the first time i'll go in and just kiss them nothing more, let them control it so i know how they like it, as soon as i get the hang of it take control its pretty easy when you start doing it that way.

The first time I ever kissed a chick when I was like 14 (I know kinda late) I'd read up on how to kiss because I was that nervous that I would not know what to do when it came to it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Lol, I have yet to kiss a girl... Im about to be 17... Reason being is I am one picky mofo... I swear I have had hundreds of chances even to bone a girl... but my standards needs to be lowered lol...

I read up on it... Go watch movies with lots of kissing and you will learn it soon... practice on your hand...
 
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^^^practisin on ur hand is point less if ya ask me, its not even the same as kissin sum 1 kissin ur hand
 
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