"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hello everybody...
There's a topic that I don't see being discussed as it should be, IMO. There goes...

Is there a way to know if your kiss is good?
I mean, thanks to this site/forum, I became able to get almost all girls I wanted. But I see that I always avoid meeting girls I already know because I feel my kissing is not good and she will probably talk about it whit the others grils that I know too.

In my case, there's a girl triying to get me and all our friends already know. So, I'm feeling kinda... there's no way out, I'll have to get her. What if my kissing sucks?

So... is there any tips about ewhat to do in this kind of sutuation?

(sorry for the poor english)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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CarlosAndradeDJ2 said:
Hello everybody...
There's a topic that I don't see being discussed as it should be, IMO. There goes...

Is there a way to know if your kiss is good?
I mean, thanks to this site/forum, I became able to get almost all girls I wanted. But I see that I always avoid meeting girls I already know because I feel my kissing is not good and she will probably talk about it whit the others grils that I know too.

In my case, there's a girl triying to get me and all our friends already know. So, I'm feeling kinda... there's no way out, I'll have to get her. What if my kissing sucks?

So... is there any tips about ewhat to do in this kind of sutuation?

(sorry for the poor english)
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kissing gets better with practice.
so get out there and start practicing.
 
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penkitten said:
kissing gets better with practice.
so get out there and start practicing.
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Yeah, that's what I do.
But I practice with girls I won't see again in my life, and now there's a different situation...
 
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you can always watch movies and see how the actors/actresses kiss each other...use that as a baseline. (not pron..not much kissing going on there).

practice makes perfect.

you can always go with a embrace and strong single kiss. No need to go and fully make out the first time around...if you arent ready for it..dont do it. she will like it either way.

dont kiss and run away. be mature about it.
 
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CarlosAndradeDJ2 said:
Yeah, that's what I do.
But I practice with girls I won't see again in my life, and now there's a different situation...
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so its free practice! you never have to face them again so all you can do is get better and better.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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penkitten said:
so its free practice! you never have to face them again so all you can do is get better and better.
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I explained badly...
Now, I will HAVE to get a girl that I WILL se again... that's the problem, I just haven't praticed enough and just won't be able to kiss her well... :( lol
 
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Search the website there are tonnes of topics on kissing, and best way to learn is to practice as people have already said, once you get good you can experiment with kissing and try different things, read the karma sutra for tips on kissing etc.

And remember your kissing doesnt suck, if she's kissing you she's kissing you who cares if you suck you have to start somewhere.
 
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You might think i'm lying but every chick i've ever kissed (even my first kiss) said i was a good kisser. When I kiss a chick for the first time i'll go in and just kiss them nothing more, let them control it so i know how they like it, as soon as i get the hang of it take control its pretty easy when you start doing it that way.

The first time I ever kissed a chick when I was like 14 (I know kinda late) I'd read up on how to kiss because I was that nervous that I would not know what to do when it came to it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Lol, I have yet to kiss a girl... Im about to be 17... Reason being is I am one picky mofo... I swear I have had hundreds of chances even to bone a girl... but my standards needs to be lowered lol...

I read up on it... Go watch movies with lots of kissing and you will learn it soon... practice on your hand...
 
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^^^practisin on ur hand is point less if ya ask me, its not even the same as kissin sum 1 kissin ur hand
 
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