That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Adone said:I'm pretty sure you're just joking, but anyway I'll answer this by saying that it's obviously false. Even when you think about it mathematically:
Average height: 5'10 (178 cm)
Average penis: 6" (15 cm)
On average, penis is 1/12 of your height, which means that, even if it were proportioned to your height, everyone would have more or less equal sized penises, which obviously is false, since there are people with 4" penises and people with 10" penises, even though there's not a 6 foot difference in height between them (an inch is 1/12 of a foot).
More than likely because a large number of researchers are male... and being male, their penis is at the forefront of their mind. After all, what's the point of science if you can't use it to determine facts about your masculinity?whistler said:People have looked at this carefully (God knows why).
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Oh, excuse me, doctor. Either provide a link with scientific proof of that number or except that fact that I have a bigger penis than you.Nasman said:Every guy in here says over 8 inches. Come on guys this aint second grade. It is very rare maybe 1% of guys are 8 inches. quit the bs.
It's very true.KarmaSutra said:One truism is that all women know that size does indeed matter. Perhaps the feel isn't important but they like to look at an impressive dizick.
Maybe it's just me but...Le Parisien said:It's only about the sight, because a big hard on makes the woman who caused it feel SO desirable, it makes her hot. We all know that women are attention wh*res and feed on ego boost, don't we?![]()
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.