Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Adone said:I'm pretty sure you're just joking, but anyway I'll answer this by saying that it's obviously false. Even when you think about it mathematically:
Average height: 5'10 (178 cm)
Average penis: 6" (15 cm)
On average, penis is 1/12 of your height, which means that, even if it were proportioned to your height, everyone would have more or less equal sized penises, which obviously is false, since there are people with 4" penises and people with 10" penises, even though there's not a 6 foot difference in height between them (an inch is 1/12 of a foot).
More than likely because a large number of researchers are male... and being male, their penis is at the forefront of their mind. After all, what's the point of science if you can't use it to determine facts about your masculinity?whistler said:People have looked at this carefully (God knows why).
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Oh, excuse me, doctor. Either provide a link with scientific proof of that number or except that fact that I have a bigger penis than you.Nasman said:Every guy in here says over 8 inches. Come on guys this aint second grade. It is very rare maybe 1% of guys are 8 inches. quit the bs.
It's very true.KarmaSutra said:One truism is that all women know that size does indeed matter. Perhaps the feel isn't important but they like to look at an impressive dizick.
Maybe it's just me but...Le Parisien said:It's only about the sight, because a big hard on makes the woman who caused it feel SO desirable, it makes her hot. We all know that women are attention wh*res and feed on ego boost, don't we?![]()
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.