"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This is probably gonna be a stupid question. I thought bodybuilding, with sets alot of guys at my gym do a 12-10-8 system and add a little more weight for each set.

Now All I do is 3 x 8 system. Which is better, I thought with bodybuilding you increase weights and lower the reps for each set???:confused: I just keep the weight the same throughout all sets?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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There are tons of different types of training methods out there so the thing for me was to find the one that made sense to me, and try it. I personally do 3-4 sets at 4-6 reps for an excersise, and I keep the weight the same. I load up as heavy as I can, lift that amount and then up the load when it starts to get easier over time. Most of my ideas come from the Max OT training program. I'll post a link in a bit.
 

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