"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

About baldness

Mustache

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 25, 2005
Messages
104
Reaction score
0
Once you met her over the internet and she already saw your frontal baldness by your pictures and liked you and are seduced by your chat. How far is your backside baldness likely to interfer by the time you met her in the hotel ?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

RogueWarrior

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 16, 2004
Messages
115
Reaction score
0
Speaking from personal experience, it is what it is. IMHO if she's THAT hung up on whether or not you've got a full head of hair, she's probably a shallow narcissistic beatch and not worth your time.

You'll know within a half hour if she's into you.

I've been going bald for many years and I never gave it much thought until I had gotten a haircut and a girl I had a thing for told me it looked good.

But I'd definitely recommend the buzz cut. Number 2 or less.
 

insidious

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 16, 2005
Messages
611
Reaction score
17
Agree w/ Rogue Warrior.

Present trends have brought us to a point in time where partially balding men with cue ball heads or distinctly receding hairlines are looked at with less respect that men who are just plain out shaved off.

I've got a pretty good head of hair still but I see signs of thinness and if I ever start seeing my scalp peeking out from beneath a full mound of hair, I'm trimming way down.
 

STR8UP

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 10, 2002
Messages
6,911
Reaction score
125
Who cares what one woman thinks? Chances are unless she's really shallow she isn't gonna mind if you OVERALL attractive to HER.

Try Dermmatch if your hairloss isn't too severe. It's a concealer that is basically makeup that gives your scalp a little color to give the illusion of having more hair. And it works great. Makes the hair in that area look a little drier, but overall it's pretty much undetectable to the untrained eye.

I think I noticed Adam Sandler with Dermmatch on one of the late night talk shows the other night. 99% sure. Also, Chop from King of Cars likely uses it too.

When the hairloss starts to get extreme and it REALLY bothers you (maybe you don't look good bald) or maybe you just want to look better, look into HIGH QUALITY hairpieces. Notice I stressed HIGH QUALITY. Buy from toplace.com or coolpiece.com and learn how to do it yourself. Done right it's only detectable to other hairpiece wearers, and most of the time NO ONE can tell. These aren't your grandpa's hairpieces. It's the stuff that movie stars wear. Good stuff.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

STR8UP

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 10, 2002
Messages
6,911
Reaction score
125
Oh yea, and if you have the right head shape theres nothing wrong with shaving it. I did it for years and still managed to hook up with hot young chicks.
 

edger

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 13, 2006
Messages
1,874
Reaction score
39
Location
A state in America that'll unmercifully leave you
We need to reinforce to ourselves from time to time because we sometimes tend to forget, which is WOMEN DON'T GIVE A F*CK ABOUT LOOKS(yeah they say they do, but they prove otherwise, as is typical with them), which is why the hottest women are usually always seen with the ugliest and slobbiest looking dudes. That is a fact. Have good game and most of the time you'll be f*ckin' her.
 
Last edited:
Top