"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What is it like to have an abortion in the first couple of months of pregnancy?

A friend of mine had an abortion when she was at her 5th month (she was 16) and she had to miss like 3 months of school and is unable to have sex for almost a year.

What if she had had it within 2 months from sexual intercourse?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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There are many different procedures. Google: abortion procedures.

Some are medical (by pill or injections).

Some are surgical.

It all depends on the term and health of the female.

Adoption is also an option in unwanted pregnancy.

Good luck.
 
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Adone said:
What is it like to have an abortion in the first couple of months of pregnancy?

A friend of mine had an abortion when she was at her 5th month (she was 16) and she had to miss like 3 months of school and is unable to have sex for almost a year.

What if she had had it within 2 months from sexual intercourse?
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This is so pathetic. I am all for abortion (rape, incest, health of mother, etc.). But I avocate more on the personal responsibility issue.

You are more concerned about when is the best time to have an abortion so you/she/etc. can have sex the soonest time possible?
 
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Latinoman said:
This is so pathetic. I am all for abortion (rape, incest, health of mother, etc.). But I avocate more on the personal responsibility issue.

You are more concerned about when is the best time to have an abortion so you/she/etc. can have sex the soonest time possible?
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No, I'm asking when is the best time to have an abortion, because she doesn't want to have a child and because I'm going to move to another city within a month.

Please, avoid making such statements about facts that you are not aware of.
 
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Adone said:
No, I'm asking when is the best time to have an abortion, because she doesn't want to have a child and because I'm going to move to another city within a month.

Please, avoid making such statements about facts that you are not aware of.
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How old is she?

Also...I'm not a doctor and nobody in here is a doctor. There plenty of literature in the Internet that can help. Furthermore, the ones with the best answer are actually the abortion clinics (I'm sure they have brochures too).
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Latinoman said:
How old is she?

Also...I'm not a doctor and nobody in here is a doctor. There plenty of literature in the Internet that can help. Furthermore, the ones with the best answer are actually the abortion clinics (I'm sure they have brochures too).
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She's 18, so we don't have to let her parents know. I'm sure they wouldn't threaten me or tell me not to see her again, but I don't want them to be worried about anything.

That's why I'm asking if having an abortion in the first months of pregnancy would be quick and not leave any visible signs on her (I think nausea and other minor problems would be unavoidable, but would there be major ones?)
 
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Abortion is one of the sickest acts one can ever do. The amount of violence and pain put on the fetus is unimaginable. Its pathetic. Its never the best time to have an abortion.
 
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SexinEar said:
Abortion is one of the sickest acts one can ever do. The amount of violence and pain put on the fetus is unimaginable. Its pathetic. Its never the best time to have an abortion.
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Well, yeah, it kills the fetus. That's pretty bad in and of itself.

I think reproductive rights are the most important rights, and they are the only political issue I really care about.
 
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whether anyone agrees that abortion is right or wrong and no matter what their own personal choice would be if it were them, the one thing that remains is that if you are going to do it, do it early.
it is better on the womans health, it is easier to recover, stress and worry after waiting for months to decide and having the baby grow and form and bond and then to do it would really be worse. it is also tons cheaper.
 
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SexinEar said:
Abortion is one of the sickest acts one can ever do. The amount of violence and pain put on the fetus is unimaginable. Its pathetic. Its never the best time to have an abortion.
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Have you gone through abortion before?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I for one am not for abortion. I think that it's a convenient way to get out of peoples ignorance. And the one thing I hate most in this world is ignorance.

Personally I think adoption is a miillion times a better choice.
 
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Have you gone through abortion before?
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No I havent. I'm getting this from one of those pbs programs on tv. Alough a little outdated, it was pretty in depth and could easily get anyone a little shooken. Graphic s*it man, they should show it to anyone considering it done, its just not right.
 
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