"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What is it like to have an abortion in the first couple of months of pregnancy?

A friend of mine had an abortion when she was at her 5th month (she was 16) and she had to miss like 3 months of school and is unable to have sex for almost a year.

What if she had had it within 2 months from sexual intercourse?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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There are many different procedures. Google: abortion procedures.

Some are medical (by pill or injections).

Some are surgical.

It all depends on the term and health of the female.

Adoption is also an option in unwanted pregnancy.

Good luck.
 

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Adone said:
What is it like to have an abortion in the first couple of months of pregnancy?

A friend of mine had an abortion when she was at her 5th month (she was 16) and she had to miss like 3 months of school and is unable to have sex for almost a year.

What if she had had it within 2 months from sexual intercourse?

This is so pathetic. I am all for abortion (rape, incest, health of mother, etc.). But I avocate more on the personal responsibility issue.

You are more concerned about when is the best time to have an abortion so you/she/etc. can have sex the soonest time possible?
 

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Latinoman said:
This is so pathetic. I am all for abortion (rape, incest, health of mother, etc.). But I avocate more on the personal responsibility issue.

You are more concerned about when is the best time to have an abortion so you/she/etc. can have sex the soonest time possible?
No, I'm asking when is the best time to have an abortion, because she doesn't want to have a child and because I'm going to move to another city within a month.

Please, avoid making such statements about facts that you are not aware of.
 

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Adone said:
No, I'm asking when is the best time to have an abortion, because she doesn't want to have a child and because I'm going to move to another city within a month.

Please, avoid making such statements about facts that you are not aware of.
How old is she?

Also...I'm not a doctor and nobody in here is a doctor. There plenty of literature in the Internet that can help. Furthermore, the ones with the best answer are actually the abortion clinics (I'm sure they have brochures too).
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Latinoman said:
How old is she?

Also...I'm not a doctor and nobody in here is a doctor. There plenty of literature in the Internet that can help. Furthermore, the ones with the best answer are actually the abortion clinics (I'm sure they have brochures too).
She's 18, so we don't have to let her parents know. I'm sure they wouldn't threaten me or tell me not to see her again, but I don't want them to be worried about anything.

That's why I'm asking if having an abortion in the first months of pregnancy would be quick and not leave any visible signs on her (I think nausea and other minor problems would be unavoidable, but would there be major ones?)
 

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Abortion is one of the sickest acts one can ever do. The amount of violence and pain put on the fetus is unimaginable. Its pathetic. Its never the best time to have an abortion.
 

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SexinEar said:
Abortion is one of the sickest acts one can ever do. The amount of violence and pain put on the fetus is unimaginable. Its pathetic. Its never the best time to have an abortion.
Well, yeah, it kills the fetus. That's pretty bad in and of itself.

I think reproductive rights are the most important rights, and they are the only political issue I really care about.
 

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whether anyone agrees that abortion is right or wrong and no matter what their own personal choice would be if it were them, the one thing that remains is that if you are going to do it, do it early.
it is better on the womans health, it is easier to recover, stress and worry after waiting for months to decide and having the baby grow and form and bond and then to do it would really be worse. it is also tons cheaper.
 

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SexinEar said:
Abortion is one of the sickest acts one can ever do. The amount of violence and pain put on the fetus is unimaginable. Its pathetic. Its never the best time to have an abortion.
Have you gone through abortion before?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I for one am not for abortion. I think that it's a convenient way to get out of peoples ignorance. And the one thing I hate most in this world is ignorance.

Personally I think adoption is a miillion times a better choice.
 

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amoka said:
Have you gone through abortion before?
No I havent. I'm getting this from one of those pbs programs on tv. Alough a little outdated, it was pretty in depth and could easily get anyone a little shooken. Graphic s*it man, they should show it to anyone considering it done, its just not right.
 
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