"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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abortion..yea im bringing it back again

x2xgamer

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My last thread, the "nosedived into oblivion" thread was locked because apparently some people here aren't mature enough.

However, I have great confidence in the sosuave community, and I've been an avid reader (dont like to post alot though) for many years. The overall gist of my story is that my ex-girlfriend says she's pregnant, and I feel very much helpless over the situation. I have always thought that I would control my own life yet my irresponsibility has made this situation out of my control.

If there are some women that roam this board, or some guys who have been in this situation before, I just need some personal advice. If she dosen't have an abortion, my life and her life is going to go pretty much down the drain. More hers then mine though....If someone can email me at [email protected] or AIM me when I'm on at jagplaya007 ...I really don't want to push abortion on anyone but I do not feel that she is in the correct mindset to make this decision.

NO TROLLS, don't be an @sshole...dont tell me "abortion is murder" blah blah blah. I have to convince her, I'm not ready for this. She has been in some cases, crazy beyond belief, and I am terrified at the fact that she could ultimately raise my child.

I don't really want you guys to pity me or anything...this is something that I have to deal with. Unwanted/Unplanned pregnancies is an issue that has been plaguing mankind since the beginning of time. I'm not the first man to have to deal with this, and I most certainly won't be the last.

Thanks everyone
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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NSUballer

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So you think youre a man and decide to have sex with a woman knowing she could get pregnant. Now you want to act like a boy and avoid the responsibility you have placed on yourself. Are you really a man? I suggest you man up and take on whatever is coming. It is not your decision to deny someone life.

P.S. your life will not be over, just different.
 

Someone Much cooler

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naw NSU is jokin. your young, carefree life WILL be over. Just becuase someone has sex don't mean they wanna kid. Its like jhust cause someone drinks that don't mean they want alchol poisoning, or f they do drugs they wanna od and die. Yes these are risks but that don't mean we want the consequences. Sounds immature but its only human nature. Go get this crazy girl that abortion. 1st make sure she is really preggos, if she ain't cuss her and ignore her 4ever. =)
 

Alkali

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Man if that hell-hole of a future can't be aborted, go MIA and run for the hills.

No, I'm not joking.
 

NSUballer

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Thats BS. If youre man enough to have sex with a woman then youre man enough to handle whatever consequences come with it. STDs pregnancy whatever it may be. If you didnt want a kid why didnt you wrap up, get her on the pill, or any number of other things. What do you thinks gonna happen when you go in naked head?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If she dosen't have an abortion, my life and her life is going to go pretty much down the drain.

Did you ruin your parents' lives? Do they regret having you? I bet they don't.
 
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