"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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abortion..yea im bringing it back again

x2xgamer

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My last thread, the "nosedived into oblivion" thread was locked because apparently some people here aren't mature enough.

However, I have great confidence in the sosuave community, and I've been an avid reader (dont like to post alot though) for many years. The overall gist of my story is that my ex-girlfriend says she's pregnant, and I feel very much helpless over the situation. I have always thought that I would control my own life yet my irresponsibility has made this situation out of my control.

If there are some women that roam this board, or some guys who have been in this situation before, I just need some personal advice. If she dosen't have an abortion, my life and her life is going to go pretty much down the drain. More hers then mine though....If someone can email me at [email protected] or AIM me when I'm on at jagplaya007 ...I really don't want to push abortion on anyone but I do not feel that she is in the correct mindset to make this decision.

NO TROLLS, don't be an @sshole...dont tell me "abortion is murder" blah blah blah. I have to convince her, I'm not ready for this. She has been in some cases, crazy beyond belief, and I am terrified at the fact that she could ultimately raise my child.

I don't really want you guys to pity me or anything...this is something that I have to deal with. Unwanted/Unplanned pregnancies is an issue that has been plaguing mankind since the beginning of time. I'm not the first man to have to deal with this, and I most certainly won't be the last.

Thanks everyone
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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NSUballer

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So you think youre a man and decide to have sex with a woman knowing she could get pregnant. Now you want to act like a boy and avoid the responsibility you have placed on yourself. Are you really a man? I suggest you man up and take on whatever is coming. It is not your decision to deny someone life.

P.S. your life will not be over, just different.
 

Someone Much cooler

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naw NSU is jokin. your young, carefree life WILL be over. Just becuase someone has sex don't mean they wanna kid. Its like jhust cause someone drinks that don't mean they want alchol poisoning, or f they do drugs they wanna od and die. Yes these are risks but that don't mean we want the consequences. Sounds immature but its only human nature. Go get this crazy girl that abortion. 1st make sure she is really preggos, if she ain't cuss her and ignore her 4ever. =)
 

Alkali

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Man if that hell-hole of a future can't be aborted, go MIA and run for the hills.

No, I'm not joking.
 

NSUballer

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Thats BS. If youre man enough to have sex with a woman then youre man enough to handle whatever consequences come with it. STDs pregnancy whatever it may be. If you didnt want a kid why didnt you wrap up, get her on the pill, or any number of other things. What do you thinks gonna happen when you go in naked head?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Bible_Belt

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If she dosen't have an abortion, my life and her life is going to go pretty much down the drain.

Did you ruin your parents' lives? Do they regret having you? I bet they don't.
 
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