"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Robert28 said:
I don't know where you all are meeting these girls at but from my experience, for every 5 girls you meet ONE(1) might let you get away with having a foot fetish. the rest are "creeped out by it". where are ya'll meeting these easy going, open minded women at? to me it's as if the cuter the girls feet are, the less likely she's going to be into any type of foot fetish you may have. the weird thing is they hate foot fetishes so much and hate guys that have them, but yet if you look at their facebook they have tons of pics of their feet on there. makes alot of sense doesnt it?
it's like everything else. they only don't like it if they dont' like you.

when i first met my wife our first date was on the beach and she was barefoot and i told her she had very pretty feet. she does. she said oh i get that all the time i hate guys who just stare at my feet all the time. even to the point she didnt' like wearing open toed shoes when i met her.

now she loves getting foot massages and doesn't wear anything other than open toed shoes. she knows if i'm not going to play with her feet i'm going to be looking at someone else's.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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backbreaker said:
it's like everything else. they only don't like it if they dont' like you.

when i first met my wife our first date was on the beach and she was barefoot and i told her she had very pretty feet. she does. she said oh i get that all the time i hate guys who just stare at my feet all the time. even to the point she didnt' like wearing open toed shoes when i met her.

now she loves getting foot massages and doesn't wear anything other than open toed shoes. she knows if i'm not going to play with her feet i'm going to be looking at someone else's.
I dunno. Most girls would just assume take a bullet for you then to have you touch, comment about or look at their feet. however, they will spend bookoo's of $$$ getting pedicures and buying all types of hot shoes to show off their feet for which they supposedly "hate" and don't want anyone noticing or messing with. if it's such a common fetish you would think more girls would be into it and understand it but 90% of them don't understand it and aren't into it.
 

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I have an anti-foot fetish. I don't care how hot the girl is; I won't lick her feet. To me, it's repulsive. I am also thoroughly put off by nail polish as well. It's tacky, distracting and uncouth.

There's nothing worse than seeing a hot chick then looking down at pink toes. Yuk. Gives me goosebumps.
 

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One of the first things out of a ONS's mouth when we got back to her place was "I have great feet."

She did, too.

Fun times.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Foot fetish? WTH?

I mean, a woman's bare feet look nice, but it's not like something I would FOCUS on when it's just another nice feature like great hips, great kaboose, great...tracts of land, etc.

LOL
 

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when they wear high heels with the little flowers decorating their toes and glitery purple or pink nail polish....and have good smooth legs with a dress or skirt....holy crap...it's on fellows! i could literally make love to their feet
 

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So say if the girl isnt into that Stuff nd i just go head And suck them without asking but dosent say Anything during it because she dont wanna be mean wouldnt that make her next me?

And man im addicted to feet. i coukdnt stop staring at my english teachers fert today. Idk how some of you guys dont like feet. I would suck for hours

Also before sucking should i massage first?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If I have a fetish for anything it's basically just any clothing or accessories that are unique to women.

Heels, tights, skirts, bras, headbands/barrettes/ribbons/ponytails, earrings, perfume, lipstick and makeup, jewelry like earrings and necklace, carrying a purse, hats/veils, etc. Anything that is quintessentially female. That would include nail polish. Also I have a thing for women wearing pink. Also I have a thing for blondes.

In terms of body parts I like wide hips, round proportionate breasts, a round kaboose, slender legs, and a tight body.
 

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Mmm feet.

Ok not gonna lie...I'd like to receive a footjob someday. There, I said it.
they're ****ing awesome. make sure she just got her nails painted though
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Capt.America said:
So i have a foot fetish. I love pretty feet. I love summer days when girls are walking with their sandles and open toed shoes and i can See their toes. The first thing i look at when i see a girl in the summer are her toes. I love watching movies where the hot girl has her feet out.I even want to suck toes sooo bad but the thing is it seems like many girls are turned off by this.

I asked girls if they would let a guy suck car parts their feet and they always say no its disgusting. This ****ing sucks for me :(. Im messing with a girl right now we kiss and do everything but i dont push or sex cause of my small penis, but im afraid to ask her if i can suck her toes cause she might think im a creep.

Im insecure about this fetish and i always have to hide it. What should i Do
Strange man. There is lot more parts to concentrate then foot.
 
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It is theorized that because the part of the brain that processes sexual response is literally right next door to the part that the extremities respond to, there is a leakage or short circuit between the two in many men. Therefore it is impossible for men who have this cross-leakage to not be wildly attracted to feet.

That seems to be the most likely cause of it, according to my readings. I also personally believe that we men are hard-wired to be fascinated by the uhhh.. "ickier" parts of women. We like everything on them that smells, sweats, has a bit of a gross aspect to it, but definitely not too gross.
 

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Are you just insecure about your foot fetish or something else ? It could be that your foot fetish insecurity stems from the insecurity you have about your thingy.
 

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I sucked a plate's toes last night while banging....they all love it...just throw both of her legs over your one of her shouders and suck away after kissing up and down her leg of course.
 

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Sir_Laid_A_Lot said:
Are you just insecure about your foot fetish or something else ? It could be that your foot fetish insecurity stems from the insecurity you have about your thingy.
He's young, and doing the normal questioning for his age. I see that he is stepping up to the plate and trying to address his insecurities, which I have respect for.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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