"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aaron_Hernandez

Found dead in his prison cell this morning. Went from making millions in his mid 20's in the NFL to a jail cell. He finally snapped. I can't imagine sitting in that cell after having all that he did and realizing that killing himself was probably the best choice.

Not in anyway defending him or saying he was a good person, but god d*mn this makes me thankful for what I have in life and appreciate the simple things.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'll bet that CTE was a factor in this!

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chronic_traumatic_encephalopathy

It's genuinely what puts me off doing contact American football.
I don't know man, I think that fall from grace ($40 Million contract at 22 to a jail cell at 27 for LIFE) would be enough to drive any man insane to point of killing themselves. You'd have to have some otherworldly inner strength to find some type of meaning and purpose to live for in his situation.
 

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I don't know man, I think that fall from grace ($40 Million contract at 22 to a jail cell at 27 for LIFE) would be enough to drive any man insane to point of killing themselves. You'd have to have some otherworldly inner strength to find some type of meaning and purpose to live for in his situation.

Yep, his life took a real nosedive.

Correct me if im wrong, but the info I read said that he had killed a guy (or guys ) for trying to espose his bisexuality. He killed three people right? Then I read he had a jailhouse lover, not sure what's true or been confirmed just what i read...
 

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They released his brain to be studied so they could see how injured his brain was.

I followed this from the start. He seemed to favor thug life for some reason, or at least it seemed as if he felt invincible.
He got one murder conviction overturned as was working on getting the others overturned. I wonder WHY he wouldn't wait for that to play out. Why off himself?
Such a promising young athlete. I never would have guessed this would have been his demise. You'da thought he would have alpha'ed his way thru jail.

Just tragic.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Crazy world fame, status and money..

To life in prison.

I heard somewhere 50% of people going through media scandals kill themselves.

Just to much pressure.

Chit I thought about suicide just losing my family.

Imagine losing the validation of millions of people.
 

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Actually I think because he is dead he isn't on the hook for any kind of civil lawsuit and therefore can give the money to his family.

Thus what he did was noble depending on how you look at it.
 
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