"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aaron_Hernandez

Found dead in his prison cell this morning. Went from making millions in his mid 20's in the NFL to a jail cell. He finally snapped. I can't imagine sitting in that cell after having all that he did and realizing that killing himself was probably the best choice.

Not in anyway defending him or saying he was a good person, but god d*mn this makes me thankful for what I have in life and appreciate the simple things.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'll bet that CTE was a factor in this!

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chronic_traumatic_encephalopathy

It's genuinely what puts me off doing contact American football.
I don't know man, I think that fall from grace ($40 Million contract at 22 to a jail cell at 27 for LIFE) would be enough to drive any man insane to point of killing themselves. You'd have to have some otherworldly inner strength to find some type of meaning and purpose to live for in his situation.
 

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I don't know man, I think that fall from grace ($40 Million contract at 22 to a jail cell at 27 for LIFE) would be enough to drive any man insane to point of killing themselves. You'd have to have some otherworldly inner strength to find some type of meaning and purpose to live for in his situation.

Yep, his life took a real nosedive.

Correct me if im wrong, but the info I read said that he had killed a guy (or guys ) for trying to espose his bisexuality. He killed three people right? Then I read he had a jailhouse lover, not sure what's true or been confirmed just what i read...
 

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They released his brain to be studied so they could see how injured his brain was.

I followed this from the start. He seemed to favor thug life for some reason, or at least it seemed as if he felt invincible.
He got one murder conviction overturned as was working on getting the others overturned. I wonder WHY he wouldn't wait for that to play out. Why off himself?
Such a promising young athlete. I never would have guessed this would have been his demise. You'da thought he would have alpha'ed his way thru jail.

Just tragic.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Crazy world fame, status and money..

To life in prison.

I heard somewhere 50% of people going through media scandals kill themselves.

Just to much pressure.

Chit I thought about suicide just losing my family.

Imagine losing the validation of millions of people.
 

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Actually I think because he is dead he isn't on the hook for any kind of civil lawsuit and therefore can give the money to his family.

Thus what he did was noble depending on how you look at it.
 
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