"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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A word on reading the advice produced here..

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Look, the ideas spawned by the many Don Juans here all are sort of maps on what is suggested to be done rather than what will happen..

It goes back to the existential way of viewing life. Its all about responsibilites and choices. It's YOUR responsibility to make the right choices and experiencing the outcome of such choices. Joe writes that to be successful you must be ****y and funny yet James goes out and tries it and doesn't generate success..Well, although James might have tried to implement the idea on a girl, he might have chosen the wrong girl and unfortunately James subconsciously chose to give up on the idea of not being so nice and ego driven and decide that ****y and funny was all a fluke..

Look, if you didn't get what you wanted the first time and you didn't give it another shot and really tried it's was your choice and now your back at home slapping yourself for even trying, it's your responsibility to get laid or simply find the right girl. It's your responsibility to define yourself and you do this through EXPERIENCE..this is why practice makes perfect. You can not solely take some tip off a forum that sounds logical and expect to catch big fish..You've got to milk the idea for what its worth..

Although I'm suggesting for you not to give up, it will be your choice and your responsibility to find success for yourself and not give up....my post my sound a little confusing but think about the choices you make everyday in life and know that by having the freedom of choice you have the burden of being responsible for those choices..
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Interesting post.
 
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