Nutz
Master Don Juan
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After many years in the community I've seen a lot of guys fall victim to hero worship of their favorite PUA gurus. And yes I was guilty of this myself once upon a time. One of the things I had to disabuse myself of was the notion that these guys are better than anyone else in the community. What I've realized through personal experience and by virtue of enduring in the community as long as I have is that a lot of them are just really good at self-promoting.
My advice for those seeking mentors and for someone to look up to is to look at the women the "gurus" are having relationships with. If they're so damn good at what they do then they should be having the pick of the litter in terms of looks and personality. Some of the "gurus" many would regard at being the best in the business aren't actually so when you look at the women they involve themselves with. I won't name names, but off the top of my head I can think of 3 top-level well known guys in the community that have average or butterface significant others that completely betrays their supposed level of mastery of getting the women of their dreams. That, or their idea of what's good looking is wildly different from what most would consider attractive.
My advice for those seeking mentors and for someone to look up to is to look at the women the "gurus" are having relationships with. If they're so damn good at what they do then they should be having the pick of the litter in terms of looks and personality. Some of the "gurus" many would regard at being the best in the business aren't actually so when you look at the women they involve themselves with. I won't name names, but off the top of my head I can think of 3 top-level well known guys in the community that have average or butterface significant others that completely betrays their supposed level of mastery of getting the women of their dreams. That, or their idea of what's good looking is wildly different from what most would consider attractive.