Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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a wonderful opportunity or shooting myself in the foot.

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I just realized this is my 2nd thread in two days. a new record for me.

Anyway, a buddy of mine hooked me up with 6 free passes to a big Hip-Hop concert for this friday (standing room)

So, I inivited 5 different women who dont know eachother, a few i have kiss closed but none I have f-closed.

The reason why I invited 5 different women (1 or 3 could flake) was to create social proof and maybe some competition for my attention during the concert. sorta like my HO train.

My question is, am I doing the right thing in inviting them to create compeition anxiety and social proof or am I just shooting myself in the foot?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It seems like there's more potential for things to go wrong than to go right. I couldn't trust 5 women to act "normal" in a situation such as this.


But, I've never taken this approach, so it could work out in your favor.
 
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Mantis, I was just thinking about different scenarios of what could happen.

Im not going to dwell on it, im just going to be my best.

If you could list a few things that could go wrong, that would be great. I like opinions from a different perpspective.
 
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tonight is the night boys.

out of the 5 plates 2 have cancelled but were easily replaced within 2 hours.

WISH ME LUCK!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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