"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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a wonderful opportunity or shooting myself in the foot.

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I just realized this is my 2nd thread in two days. a new record for me.

Anyway, a buddy of mine hooked me up with 6 free passes to a big Hip-Hop concert for this friday (standing room)

So, I inivited 5 different women who dont know eachother, a few i have kiss closed but none I have f-closed.

The reason why I invited 5 different women (1 or 3 could flake) was to create social proof and maybe some competition for my attention during the concert. sorta like my HO train.

My question is, am I doing the right thing in inviting them to create compeition anxiety and social proof or am I just shooting myself in the foot?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It seems like there's more potential for things to go wrong than to go right. I couldn't trust 5 women to act "normal" in a situation such as this.


But, I've never taken this approach, so it could work out in your favor.
 

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Mantis, I was just thinking about different scenarios of what could happen.

Im not going to dwell on it, im just going to be my best.

If you could list a few things that could go wrong, that would be great. I like opinions from a different perpspective.
 

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tonight is the night boys.

out of the 5 plates 2 have cancelled but were easily replaced within 2 hours.

WISH ME LUCK!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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