“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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A Woman's value is 99% her sex appeal

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Anyone ever notice how most women are fine with having male friends they are not sexually interested in, while most men would never do the same?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T_lh5fR4DMA

Clearly, if a man doesn't see himself ever f*cking a woman, she might as well not exist.

It just shows that women need men more than men need women. Without sex, most men are content to live their lives free of women. However, women want men in their lives no matter what.

Even all the white knight faggots that risk their lives to save women are just indirectly asking for sex. :crackup:

The fact that most women are too stupid to notice this is another story. :crackup:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I wrote a thread that men have more value then women, and the board act like it was a lie

you telling me a 45 year old woman got the same value as a 25 year old woman

a man value appreciates when he gets older, a woman value depreciates because her looks start to fade, especially when they have children

but on the topic

it's a fact women need men in all aspects, even if it just a self esteem boost, that's why I stopped giving women attention and compliments about their looks a long time ago
 

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ScottMustaine said:
I admire Joan Baez and her musical work. She was never someone I would be with. (looking at younger pictures) But has charisma and talent which I admire.


Go on. Tell me I'm a beta male faggot and that men are better musicians and women are for shyt.
Ok I will: YOU ARE A BETA MALE FAGGOT.

But not for admiring Joan Baez or because "men are better musicians"... just because you are even remotely offended by this thread.

I said 99% of value not 100%. As far as friendships go.. most men are not interested if sex is definitely not EVER going to happen. However, female friends can be useful for meeting other females who you might be able to f*ck.

I generally only have female friends (who I can't f*ck) for the purpose of meeting their friends. If a girl has no attractive friends and is not attractive or f*ckable herself.. what the hell am I there for? To admire her musical talent? To be her therapist? To help her move her furniture? To talk for hours on the phone? To go shopping?
 

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whats weird two of my female friends want to bang me but I don't want to date them

I banged one which was a mistake, but I wont date these girls and they know that, but they are cool girls, I wont expect them to always be that way though.
 

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Fatal Jay said:
whats weird two of my female friends want to bang me but I don't want to date them

I banged one which was a mistake, but I wont date these girls and they know that, but they are cool girls, I wont expect them to always be that way though.
I think for most of us men.. we don't have to necessarily WANT to bang a female friend. We just have to believe its possible. There has to be SOME attraction even if is minimal.

Once we know there is ZERO chance of sex ever happening .. most of us won't want to be friends with that girl. Unless we can use her in some way for something else: Jobs, connections, wing-woman, hot friends, etc. :up:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ScottMustaine said:
I admire Joan Baez and her musical work. .

yeah admiring joan baez is pretty weak
 

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If a girl is your friend but she is not attracted to you (and if she was then she wouldn't be designated a friend would she), isn't that a complete insult to you and your manhood?

That's why back in the day there was no such thing as a female friend for a man. They would have thought he was a homo.

Guys only got together for other guys for friends and did manly things like sports, playing poker, fixing cars, and having outside cookouts with beer.
 

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PlayHer Man said:
Anyone ever notice how most women are fine with having male friends they are not sexually interested in, while most men would never do the same?

Clearly, if a man doesn't see himself ever f*cking a woman, she might as well not exist.

It just shows that women need men more than men need women. Without sex, most men are content to live their lives free of women. However, women want men in their lives no matter what.
Sorry bro, don't understand how men wanting sex from women, and women wanting men in their lives for their ego, have to do with women needing men more than men needing woman.

One is allegedly a need, the other is for personal satisfaction, nothing to do with each other.
 

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ScottMustaine said:
I admire Joan Baez and her musical work. She was never someone I would be with. (looking at younger pictures) But has charisma and talent which I admire.


Go on. Tell me I'm a beta male faggot and that men are better musicians and women are for shyt.
i think Dylan already fooked her.. more then once..

though it was the style of the time..
 

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i pretty much have 0 female friends now... true friends that is ( not counting friends gfs or aquaintences or friends who are on Facebook or fell off.)

total i have had 3 in my life.

girl 1) used to be my oneitis girl. ( did bang.. would bang again)
girl 2) i used to get free weed from. ( would never bang but ungly. we are not friends no more. she is a total *****)
girl 3) is a nice girl. she got married and lives in the burbs... (would i do.. maybe. at a push I guess)

so me and girl who are my friends don't work out well. i had one more. but i got WAY to needy one week and killed it. now we ain't eeven face book friends no more.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Trump said:
Sorry bro, don't understand how men wanting sex from women, and women wanting men in their lives for their ego, have to do with women needing men more than men needing woman.

One is allegedly a need, the other is for personal satisfaction, nothing to do with each other.
Outside of sex.. women need men for almost everything. Fixing their cars and computers, building THE WORLD. I mean.. just about everything in your home was designed and constructed by a man.. including the home itself.

How many things have women invented? Lets get serious. Men are more needed than women for the well being of society. Women are more needed than men for keeping the species going.

Without enough men around to construct society and protect women and children from wild animals.. human's would of died out a long time ago.
 

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i never keep women as friends...most of them are only good for sex and dating...i always get the can't we be friends when i break up with someone...hell no...cut them off completely...my current guy friends are already crazy enough...don't need any more headaches...i am sure there would be some social advantages of keeping them as friends...but it's not worth the headache IMO...and i never meet new girls for friends..i only meet them for sex or potential dating...
 
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Haha funny ****ing video. There are some girls I consider my friends, because they don't really turn me on or they don't turn me on and are my guy friend's girls, but even then if they were naked in my bed I'd still **** 'em.

Not that I see anything wrong with friends that ****, of course ;)
 

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Frienship with women is only reserved for women I'm not attracted to, And not even friendship in the truest sense.
 

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SamTheHobit said:
Frienship with women is only reserved for women I'm not attracted to, And not even friendship in the truest sense.
Judge nismo approves!

Men value love, hence the white knights, even of fiction (Super Mario, Link, etc.) But women love value. Hence Hypergamy. Women tend to be "dating up", but men tend to be "dating down".

Besides, haven't any of you guys heard of Briffault's Law?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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PlayHer Man said:
Anyone ever notice how most women are fine with having male friends they are not sexually interested in, while most men would never do the same?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T_lh5fR4DMA

Clearly, if a man doesn't see himself ever f*cking a woman, she might as well not exist.

It just shows that women need men more than men need women. Without sex, most men are content to live their lives free of women. However, women want men in their lives no matter what.

Even all the white knight faggots that risk their lives to save women are just indirectly asking for sex. :crackup:

The fact that most women are too stupid to notice this is another story. :crackup:
Great post. But not because they're all too stupid; rather, they can't empathize and live with their heads in the box of solipsism.

ScottMustaine said:
I admire Sue Fink and her musical work. I am someone she would never be with. (looking at younger pictures). But her butt has charisma and talent which I admire.

Go on. I'm a beta male faggot and men are better musicians and women are for shyt.
Fixed that for you.

Darth said:
If a girl is your friend but she is not attracted to you (and if she was then she wouldn't be designated a friend would she), isn't that a complete insult to you and your manhood?

That's why back in the day there was no such thing as a female friend for a man. They would have thought he was a homo.

Guys only got together for other guys for friends and did manly things like sports, playing poker, fixing cars, and having outside cookouts with beer.
Of course women didn't buddy around with men. An unchaperoned woman was then -- and is now -- automatically assumed to be a wh0re. What's the point of hanging around with wh0res after you've put your britches back on? More to the point of this thread, what's the point of hanging around with wh0res, not paying, and not getting any?

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How many things have women invented?
I think a lezbian invented the breast pump b'cuz she couldn't stand the idea of a man svcking his woman's breasts to get the flow going for their newborn. Even now, nurses in maternity wards completely avoid the obvious (even though men stay with their women through the whole hospitalization).
 

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Almost a couple of years ago something almost happened between me and my co worker i was nervous and not relaxed and wasn't trying do anything without a condom . My penis did not get errected. I was in the flaccid state and I'm a grower not a shower..my fully errected size when aroused is about 8.1x 6 inches but you couldn't tell in my flaccid state..i feel insecure about my flaccid too..anyhow rumors of what happened to me found it's way to the place we work..people are teasing me, using the word small, tiny in almost every sentence. It's like they don't even have control over what's coming out of their mouths. I'm being bullied, disrespect and told to ignore the issue and the more I try to ignore it the worst things are getting..it's like fighting an invisible monster because you can't see the enemy but you can feel the pressure of his/their work..I'm being laughed at made a mockery of, work in a public place where this information is being leaked out to people and their family members and friends who visit where I work. People stare at me in disbelief some break out in histerical laughter and no matter how much this happens I keep my cool and keep doing my job but its really taking it's toll..I can't prove I'm going through this..the way it's orchestrated it protects the integrity of their bullying tactics against me in such a cunning way it appears that I might be having mental issues but I know better..I'm a handsome blk male, my environment is multicultural, which makes it even more difficult to move pass because of our cultural differences and views of each other, which is already negative and when situations like what is happening to me go down it reinforces the negative energy more, meaning everyone makes me the but end of there jokes blacks, whites,Asians,Africans, Jamaicans etc.. I realize i made a mistake dealing with this women and it appears to be costing me my reputation, a great deal of embarrassment and shame and a lot of emotional and psychological stress..it never feels good coming to work either. My work morale is at a negative low..finding another job is a difficult process I've tried to since the incident happened. I need some advice on how to handle this awful and unbelievable place in my life
 

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I have plenty of female acquaintances of which I have no interest in getting with, but I don't opt to hang out with them when there are other people to hang out with. honestly, women don't bring much to the table as far as socializing so unless I am trying to get with them, I don't fixate on trying to hang out with them. Again its not to say I don't enjoy time out with a friends gf, and we all can't have a good time or anything.

Men lead, women follow. Women follow a mans social circle. I take a look at most of the women who were involved in our social circle at one time, and their social circles formed FROM the guys outward. now they are all 'bestest' buddies, but its only because they all came together from our group. Without the sexual backdrop, these women do not hang around my group of friends anymore as they are now exes and what not, but they all still hang around their chick friends whom they made while with us.

In short, yes a womens value is derived exclusively by the prospect of having sex with them. Once that dissipates in any way, they will be removed from said social group expeditiously, ( or in some cases, painstakingly)
 

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I read this article awhile back, it basically confirms what the video is saying. The most pertinant part:

"Men were much more attracted to their female friends than vice versa. Men were also more likely than women to think that their opposite-sex friends were attracted to them—a clearly misguided belief. In fact, men’s estimates of how attractive they were to their female friends had virtually nothing to do with how these women actually felt, and almost everything to do with how the men themselves felt—basically, males assumed that any romantic attraction they experienced was mutual, and were blind to the actual level of romantic interest felt by their female friends. Women, too, were blind to the mindset of their opposite-sex friends; because females generally were not attracted to their male friends, they assumed that this lack of attraction was mutual. As a result, men consistently overestimated the level of attraction felt by their female friends and women consistently underestimated the level of attraction felt by their male friends."

http://www.scientificamerican.com/article.cfm?id=men-and-women-cant-be-just-friends
 

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99% inspiration, 1% perspiration.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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