"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I found a girl who always treats me to food. I offer to pay, but she just tells me to get her next time. And it makes me want to..

She also cooks me food randomly (which is a plus since its 1) a woman who can cook and 2) is cooking for me without me asking) and she made me soup again after she realized I had a cold.

Feels kind of nuts to have a girl care for you so much and go out of her way...I mean there are girls who "love you", and then there are girls that just do so much for you.....Cot damn I hate one-itis :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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You did something right, but while they are nice to find occasionally, we can't expect to find women like this.

Because what does she have to do to earn the money she spends on you? Did she marry a rich guy and steal his money? Does she shake her ass at the tittie bar? Is is sustainable?

The man either provides for his woman or she has to wh0re herself out.
 

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I've met many girls who would wipe my ass for me but anything half decent looking and up - it's uncommon in many Western countries atleast.
 

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My girlfriend is like this. I'm always getting random presents and she would literally do anything for me. Feels good to have someone that you quite clearly mean the world to. Even if sometimes it makes me feel like the woman in the relationship lol
 

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Gratz on your find champ you deserve it....
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sounds like you've found a good one, ArcBound.

Does she have an older sister? Okay, a single mother? Grandmother?

I'm lowering my requirements these days, willing to trade looks/age for character. ;)
 

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bigneil said:
You did something right, but while they are nice to find occasionally, we can't expect to find women like this.

Because what does she have to do to earn the money she spends on you? Did she marry a rich guy and steal his money? Does she shake her ass at the tittie bar? Is is sustainable?

The man either provides for his woman or she has to wh0re herself out.
Indeed if only every woman were like this... I do pay for her usually, but there is something about a girl that offers and insists to pay not only for her part, but for yours as well...and cooks for you... IMO

For_F said:
I've met many girls who would wipe my ass for me but anything half decent looking and up - it's uncommon in many Western countries atleast.
Indeed, very uncommon.

MM92 said:
My girlfriend is like this. I'm always getting random presents and she would literally do anything for me. Feels good to have someone that you quite clearly mean the world to. Even if sometimes it makes me feel like the woman in the relationship lol
Lol it makes me feel awkward sometimes since so few women actually do this sort of thing. Or at least for me :(

SgtSplacker said:
Gratz on your find champ you deserve it....
Ty

Atom Smasher said:
Sounds like you've found a good one, ArcBound.

Does she have an older sister? Okay, a single mother? Grandmother?

I'm lowering my requirements these days, willing to trade looks/age for character. ;)
Has a non-single mother. After seeing her parents and hearing her talk about them I've put more weight into the "your parents influence your relationships" theory. Comes from a super conservative family with the husband and wife still together and super old.

JohnChops said:
Leave it to Neil to bring the negative into this awesome post! Great find dude she sounds like a keeper
Indeed she sounds like one. The only thing I'm worried about is the fact that I found a woman like this too young. Seems like the general consensus is that low 20 year old relationships will never lead to a stable or healthy relationship, but we will see. Also I'm worried about seeing her as a keeper...Part of me says she is special another part tells me to stop developing one-itis.
 

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omega05 said:
is she your girl or is she just a friend? have you smashed?
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Espi said:
Good post ArcBound. 100% truth.
I wonder why women don't teach their daughters this stuff. Like teaching your daughter to be kind and considerate and to actually do things for a dude will raise a girl's value in men's eyes. At some point a girl's hotness level caps off and you get dimishing returns for each .1 point of hotness.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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