Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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A woman who actually knows what women REALLY want

Mr. Bond

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Every time this song comes on the radio, Sosuave pops up in my mind. It's not that good of a song, but it's refreshing to hear a girl who knows what she ACTUALLY wants. None of this "I want a nice guy" $hit.

In This Moment - Blood

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5UlFCzMsgFg

Lyrics:

I hate you for the sacrifices you made for me
I hate you for every time you ever bled for me
I hate you for the way you smile when you look at me
I hate you for never taking control of me
I hate you for always saving me from myself
I hate you for always choosing me and not someone else
I hate you for always pulling me back from the edge
I hate you for every kind word you ever said
I'll bleed you dry now

Blood blood blood
Pump mud through my veins
Shut your dirty, dirty mouth
I'm not that easy
Blood blood blood
Pump mud through my veins
I'm a dirty, dirty girl
I want it filthy

I love you for everything you ever took from me
I love the way you dominate and you violate me
I love you for every time you gave up on me
I love you for the way you look when you lie to me
I love you for never believing in what I say
I love you for never once giving me my way
I love you for never delivering me from pain
I love you for always driving me insane
I'll bleed you dry now

Blood blood blood
Pump mud through my veins
Shut your dirty, dirty mouth
I'm not that easy
Blood blood blood
Pump mud through my veins
I'm a dirty, dirty girl
I want it filthy

I hate you, I hate you
I'll bleed you dry now
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Jesus, this is what you listen to on the radio?
 

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dap said:
Jesus, this is what you listen to on the radio?
The song comes up on the rock/metal station. Forget the song - it's $hit. The lyrics (written by a chick) are the only reason I posted it.
 
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