"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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A woman scorned.

Wilko

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Quick bit of background, I do have a disclaimer on my profile that any contact requests need to come with access to pics. So this girl sends a request but it's not accompanied by any pic access so I briefly add her and shoot her a message:

Look, I don't like being put in a position where I might have
to knock someone back after I've added them because they didn't
give me access to their pics.

Give me access and send another request if you're cool with that.

Ciao for now.
Then I deleted her. I've done it a bunch of times and the girls have always followed up properly afterwards. Bear in mind those were literally the only words exchanged. Another request comes through a day later and the dear girl has taken the time to add this to her profile:

Message to the user ********* you are a loser and I hope to dear God no poor unfortunate girl ever has to put up with your arrogant, rude unattractive self. Be wary girls this guy is bad news. He thinks he is God Almighty - men like that deserve to be ALONE. He will delete you if you don't have a public picture and will be very rude about it. I have reported him and if you read this - I'M HOT - you lose!
U mad?

Forever Stallone.

I'm not getting into a flame war with this shrew but I have reported it to admin becuase it is baseless slander. In the mean time I seem to be getting more views and requests, I can't say if it's the free publicity or just a new years surge, but it certainly hasn't hurt!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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