"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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A woman scorned.

Wilko

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Quick bit of background, I do have a disclaimer on my profile that any contact requests need to come with access to pics. So this girl sends a request but it's not accompanied by any pic access so I briefly add her and shoot her a message:

Look, I don't like being put in a position where I might have
to knock someone back after I've added them because they didn't
give me access to their pics.

Give me access and send another request if you're cool with that.

Ciao for now.
Then I deleted her. I've done it a bunch of times and the girls have always followed up properly afterwards. Bear in mind those were literally the only words exchanged. Another request comes through a day later and the dear girl has taken the time to add this to her profile:

Message to the user ********* you are a loser and I hope to dear God no poor unfortunate girl ever has to put up with your arrogant, rude unattractive self. Be wary girls this guy is bad news. He thinks he is God Almighty - men like that deserve to be ALONE. He will delete you if you don't have a public picture and will be very rude about it. I have reported him and if you read this - I'M HOT - you lose!
U mad?

Forever Stallone.

I'm not getting into a flame war with this shrew but I have reported it to admin becuase it is baseless slander. In the mean time I seem to be getting more views and requests, I can't say if it's the free publicity or just a new years surge, but it certainly hasn't hurt!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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