"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A woman scorned.

Wilko

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Quick bit of background, I do have a disclaimer on my profile that any contact requests need to come with access to pics. So this girl sends a request but it's not accompanied by any pic access so I briefly add her and shoot her a message:

Look, I don't like being put in a position where I might have
to knock someone back after I've added them because they didn't
give me access to their pics.

Give me access and send another request if you're cool with that.

Ciao for now.
Then I deleted her. I've done it a bunch of times and the girls have always followed up properly afterwards. Bear in mind those were literally the only words exchanged. Another request comes through a day later and the dear girl has taken the time to add this to her profile:

Message to the user ********* you are a loser and I hope to dear God no poor unfortunate girl ever has to put up with your arrogant, rude unattractive self. Be wary girls this guy is bad news. He thinks he is God Almighty - men like that deserve to be ALONE. He will delete you if you don't have a public picture and will be very rude about it. I have reported him and if you read this - I'M HOT - you lose!
U mad?

Forever Stallone.

I'm not getting into a flame war with this shrew but I have reported it to admin becuase it is baseless slander. In the mean time I seem to be getting more views and requests, I can't say if it's the free publicity or just a new years surge, but it certainly hasn't hurt!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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