I have met a lady I like, who also seemed to like me.
Due to my busy schedule, taking exams to upgrade my skills and job prospects, I have not had time for her.
Anyway, a guy came up to me one day and started talking to me. I thought it was general trying to get to know me. He acknowledged that he used to have a thing for her a few years back, but they were both unavailable. He then said she fell pregnant, which was a big no no for him. But he said they were good mates. (I am now thinking he may already know me from her [if she put him up to it])
A subsequent conversation, I told him I was distant with this girl I like lately. He straight away correctly guessed her name. I denied it was her, but he kept pressing it whenever I ignored it and changed the subject. He then baited me by saying she is a lively girl and has a kid. I then told him I thought she was shy and quiet and gave the reason that she used to quickly look away when I caught her looking. He then snapped at me and got really hostile saying “maybe she doesn’t like you stalking her” and “seriously don’t want to talk about it. End of conversation”. This was fine by me.
Then days later he would talk to me again about general stuff. HE would then bring up the lady and say “have you caught so and so looking at you lately” I responded I am too busy for relationships with my schedule being busy
Then days later he would say he has told a few people that I passed my exam, which I said was okay because I have told people too and that they were pleased for me. He AGAIN snapped and said "mate I congratulated you too" and then a random statement “stop talking about allocation and baloney”, which was different from the conversation we were having.
Her other friends are really cool with me. They talk to me, say hello etc. They don’t look at me weirdly or with derision.
I don’t know what to make of him. He sounds like a complete nut job, a huge red flag. If he is a red flag, then she may be too. Has she put him up to it to get information from me? He seems to be seeking information in a lot of his conversations. Has he been going back and telling her ****? If so, he may well be ****ing things up by grassing me up.
Due to my busy schedule, taking exams to upgrade my skills and job prospects, I have not had time for her.
Anyway, a guy came up to me one day and started talking to me. I thought it was general trying to get to know me. He acknowledged that he used to have a thing for her a few years back, but they were both unavailable. He then said she fell pregnant, which was a big no no for him. But he said they were good mates. (I am now thinking he may already know me from her [if she put him up to it])
A subsequent conversation, I told him I was distant with this girl I like lately. He straight away correctly guessed her name. I denied it was her, but he kept pressing it whenever I ignored it and changed the subject. He then baited me by saying she is a lively girl and has a kid. I then told him I thought she was shy and quiet and gave the reason that she used to quickly look away when I caught her looking. He then snapped at me and got really hostile saying “maybe she doesn’t like you stalking her” and “seriously don’t want to talk about it. End of conversation”. This was fine by me.
Then days later he would talk to me again about general stuff. HE would then bring up the lady and say “have you caught so and so looking at you lately” I responded I am too busy for relationships with my schedule being busy
Then days later he would say he has told a few people that I passed my exam, which I said was okay because I have told people too and that they were pleased for me. He AGAIN snapped and said "mate I congratulated you too" and then a random statement “stop talking about allocation and baloney”, which was different from the conversation we were having.
Her other friends are really cool with me. They talk to me, say hello etc. They don’t look at me weirdly or with derision.
I don’t know what to make of him. He sounds like a complete nut job, a huge red flag. If he is a red flag, then she may be too. Has she put him up to it to get information from me? He seems to be seeking information in a lot of his conversations. Has he been going back and telling her ****? If so, he may well be ****ing things up by grassing me up.
