"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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A weekend visit

thirdtimescharm

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Two weeks ago I met a woman at a street fair. We ended up spending the night together and had a great time. She invited me to visit her (she lives four hours away) and I'm going this weekend. Obviously we already have great chemistry and attraction, but is there anything special I should do considering this is essentially going to be a whole weekend-long date? We've talked on the phone a number of times since last week and also emailed back and forth to keep in touch, and as far as I can tell, it's all good.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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-HPNOTIQ-

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Just sit back, relax, and enjoy a weekend full of guilt free sex. I think too many guys over think these things. What if I call her? Why does she want me to drive 4 hours? Why a whole weekend? What if she doesn't like me when I get there?

Too many questions, so much over analysis when the real answer is simple - Just Have Fun.

You've already got her attraction, there's chemistry, she's interested..just enjoy yourself. Don't put her on a pedestal. Don't propose to her. Don't have a case of AFC one-itis. Just go with the flow....

....and make sure to bring a box of condoms....I prefer Durex personally..haha
 

thirdtimescharm

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Other than a little tour around her town, we pretty much spent the whole time in bed. Great trip! We are still in touch and I have to say that I am finally a fan of long distance "relationships."
 
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