“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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A weekend visit

thirdtimescharm

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Two weeks ago I met a woman at a street fair. We ended up spending the night together and had a great time. She invited me to visit her (she lives four hours away) and I'm going this weekend. Obviously we already have great chemistry and attraction, but is there anything special I should do considering this is essentially going to be a whole weekend-long date? We've talked on the phone a number of times since last week and also emailed back and forth to keep in touch, and as far as I can tell, it's all good.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Just sit back, relax, and enjoy a weekend full of guilt free sex. I think too many guys over think these things. What if I call her? Why does she want me to drive 4 hours? Why a whole weekend? What if she doesn't like me when I get there?

Too many questions, so much over analysis when the real answer is simple - Just Have Fun.

You've already got her attraction, there's chemistry, she's interested..just enjoy yourself. Don't put her on a pedestal. Don't propose to her. Don't have a case of AFC one-itis. Just go with the flow....

....and make sure to bring a box of condoms....I prefer Durex personally..haha
 

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Other than a little tour around her town, we pretty much spent the whole time in bed. Great trip! We are still in touch and I have to say that I am finally a fan of long distance "relationships."
 
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