A Way to Send Gifts Without Coming Off As An AFC?

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Alle_Gory

Master Don Juan

Jan 11, 2012

Leopold said:
Take it from personal experience.... you only reward women AFTER she meets your expectations!!!

You can give a gift and not be seen as an AFC. It's her birthday, for him to have any connection to her, he has to respect that. He doesn't need to spend much money, it's the thought that counts.

"Hey I remembered you were born on a day, here's something from me to remember."

That's all. Something small, cheap and memorable. Cheaper is better, because why spend money on people who may or may not be worthy? It's too much of a gamble.

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.